Ok, i dated him over the summer, longest relationship I've ever had. I was convinced he felt the same way about me. But when his parents told him to dump me, and he did, i realized taht he didn't really love me. But the problem is, i still love him and whenever i try to talk to him he just yells at me and tells me to get over him. Well heres another problem, i had my first kiss with him. I know i love him because whenever i think about him i get the most wonderful feeling. For awhile i hated him because he dumped me 3 days after my great grandma died, when i really needed him. I know that i'm only 13 and ppl may say that i don't know what love feels like but i do. And usually after i break up with someone or they break up with me i'm over them in about 1 minute, well he broke up with me in july and i'm still not over him, i haven't had another boyfriend since, thinkig that he may want to get bak together with me, so i stay open and ready. help, i'm about to quit life.
2007-10-06 07:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is always hard to get over that first love one feels, the feeling of finding the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, but in time you will find a better love as you grow older. If you did get back with him, you would find that there would be a lot of problems in a relationship with someone who lets their parents control them. Love grows as you grow and the love you feel at 13 can never be as strong as the love when you turn say 20 and have learned more of what life is all about. As someone far older than you, from my own experiences, I can honestly say don't be in too much of a hurry to get the boyfriend and the love now because there is so much more beauty to be found as you grow older, both in life and in relationships.
2007-10-06 07:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the medicine for you honey.its not true that he nvr loved u becoz he dumped u for his parents.its hard.i hope he comes back.hey life is full of choices dont complicate yourself.just live it.hav fun.if you still love him then show it time after time.may be one day he will speak with his parents when he is all grown up.
u r still young u know...a long way 2 go.Tc
2007-10-06 15:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Deep eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, looking at your age, I'd say........you are very sensible.....but at the same time, courageous enough too....... and I do trust you, I agree with you......... and I think, you want to get him back.......in that case, first of all, know yourself.......stand straight in front of the mirror......look into your own eyes and say I love __________ (his name).........and I'll get him back......with a great confidence...... and for that you have to make yourself, a desired commodity for him.......as you said, he dumped you because of his parent, than be a person that his parent would demand for their son......keep meeting him, but never share what is there, in deep down your mind.......improve yourself......take care of him as a friend, and amaze him with your extra-ordinary maturity............
Keep in mind.......this will not happen over night, so be ready for an endless waiting.........and at the same time, enjoy your life, be cheerful always..............take this as a life long assignment, and start working for it today.....All the Best.........
2007-10-06 14:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by kanomatr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, any man who can't see the value of who you are as a person isn't worth the time, no matter what your age is.
2007-10-06 14:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by stormonthelake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on and try and find someone else to fill the gap. he is obviously not as bothered about you as you are about him
2007-10-06 14:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by andi_scott56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask if he really likes u. sounds like his parents r just butts. maybe he likes u and regretted breakin' up
2007-10-06 14:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by imjustakid&lifeisanitemare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, theres many more guys out there that are way hella cooler than him.
2007-10-06 14:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by peerlesschino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-10-06 14:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont really love him-- let it become history
2007-10-06 14:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by jacks_insanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋