i've had my boyfriend for a week & i used to like him a lot but now for some reason i dont anymore & i realized i'm destined to be single(great for me-i was a lot happier being single than i am now) but i cant break up with him!! no way!! all our friends know about it & everyone is loving us together...& if i dump him i'll feel even worse & everyone will be saying im a b**** because the relationship barely started...but i hate being fake & pretending to love the relationship...
help please i'm so lost & i feel like crap. i didnt expect this.
i feel like my freedom got taken away..i loved being single but now i just feel..well...NOT FREE! :-s
2007-10-06 07:23:54 · 12 answers · asked by cloud16 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will be hated by everyone if i break up with him :-s & i hate that
2007-10-06 07:24:39 · update #1
what exactly do i tell him ? :-s
2007-10-06 07:35:24 · update #2
i DO care about him but i dont want to be in a relationship anymore & i dont want to break his heart because he has no clue of what im about to tell him..
2007-10-06 07:40:47 · update #3
LOOK, YOUR NOT HAPPY SO DO WHATS RIGHT, LET HIM GO BEFORE IT GETS WORSE.
WHO CARES WHAT THE WORLD THINKS, DO IT BEFORE YOU WIND UP CHEATING ON HIM...THEN THEY WILL HATE YOU.
LET HIM GO WHILE IT IS STILL IN THE MAKING.
GOOD LUCK AND DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF, AT LEAST YOU KNOW YOU DON'T WANT HIM IN THE WAY YOU THOUGHT YOU DID.
END IT NICELY THOUGH.
2007-10-06 07:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by transvainia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of growing up is learning to be true to yourself. If people get mad at you for breaking up with a guy just cuz THEY like him, then they arent your friends. Do what is right for you...you will just keep getting unhappier by the minute if you continue this. Besides, its only been a week, you dont have much invested in the relationship. Do what feels right, people will get over it and you will feel better about yourself, staying in this situation will only bring your self esteem down.
2007-10-06 07:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by answers4u, not insults 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather everyone else call you names for a short time, or stay with someone and call yourself one for the rest of your life? Life is of so short if you are not with the person you want to be with. If you are happier, without a steady boyfriend, then do them a favor and not be with them, but most important do it for you. No one can live your life but you, look how many people go with someone, end up married, and are unhappy about it, and the worse part is they bring kids in to this world that will be without one of their parents. Break it off now. If you have to explain that you are not ready to settle with one person, not that it is anybodys business but yours.
2007-10-06 07:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 10:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have way too much drama in your life. You need to change your mind about who you are resposible to. Wait until you finish school to get hooked up. Just date for now and keep hands off.
2007-10-06 07:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to ask yourself one question...
would you rather be in the relationship or be hated by everyone as you put it. honestly i say break it off and be single! that is what you want, right? right.... :)
gl & peace!
2007-10-06 07:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to do what will makes you happy...not what makes your friends happy. If they are true friends they will try to understand. They are probably not aware of how you feel.
2007-10-06 07:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question, otherwhise you wouldn't be asking it. Listen to your self. Only you know what's best for you, and from it sounds like, you know you don't need a man in your life to be happy.
2007-10-06 07:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by strawberrylemonadecupcake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look don;t be with someone you don't care about because everyone wants you guys to be together what if he really starts fallin in love with you then it is really going to be hard to leave him so just leave him
2007-10-06 07:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy in your relationship u should dump him and if your Friends don't understand y u dumped him and call u out your name then there not really friends are they??????
2007-10-06 07:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by one_only_tia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋