Been seeing a lovely guy for three months, not sure where it is going still. Had the chance for a one night, no strings, with an ex that pressed all the right buttons. Would you risk it or not?
2007-10-06 07:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are brill.....what was I thinking!!!
2007-10-06 07:43:31 · update #1
No I wouldn't. This guy is an ex for a reason, and if this new guy is so lovely why would you want to risk ruining something that could turn out to be the best thing you ever had. In other words one nights lust isn't worth losing the possibility of a lifetimes love. Even if you are not sure where things are going with the new guy - you already know where you've been with the old one.
2007-10-06 07:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope a thousand times no. If the ex was so great, he wouldn't be an ex, he would be #1, but since he isn't than wait and see how the relationship works out. The ex will always be there, and none of them will pass up free sex, no matter what.
2007-10-06 07:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have it if you wanna be considered easy... its something you and that guy would need to have a understanding about but you definetly wont get a long relationship from this.
2007-10-06 07:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"That ex' of his, already knows all about you."
"He probably knows you can fight them both, him and his ex'."
"Me, there is 'NO TALKING' with an ex-girlfriend; no calls, text
messaging, Email, cards, gifts (given or received), letters,
meetings, or conversations. None, whatsoever."
"Once a relationship is over, there is 'NO LOOKING BACK'."
2007-10-06 07:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Arkansas Mohawk Indian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in a million years I've had it done to me so i know what it feels like so NO, I'm a great believer in treat people how you expect to be treated yourself.
2007-10-06 07:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i wouldn't, no. But i guess it depends whether you think the guy is worth waiting for. x
2007-10-06 07:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Moondance™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is an ex for a reason
2007-10-06 07:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how much
a) you tell the other guy
b) whether you want the sex
2007-10-06 07:38:48 · answer #8 · answered by andi_scott56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was one of those girls that id give up my right nut for, then yeah ; )~
gl & peace!
2007-10-06 07:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex and love dnt mix well
2007-10-06 08:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by Deep eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋