when my boyfriend always chooses his mates over me. he doesnt realise how much it hurts me but when i try to talk about it he claims i am clingy.
i know i shouldnt be with him but i couldnt bare to be without him.
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2007-10-06 08:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by cheese_savouries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well find some of your own mates to go hang out with, do him the same way he is doing you. he will get the hint, and if not have some fun and then it wont bother you so much
2007-10-06 08:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by danee1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. it's happening to me right now :(
spend more time with your friends and act like you're busy and having a good time. try to act sophisticated around your boyfriend, like you have a life other than him. (at least that's what I'm trying to do and I think it's working.)
other than that, i know it hurts, but that's just the way that most guys are. they feel the need to hang out with other guys all the time i think more than girls. dont worry, you just need to pay more attention to the life you have without him. x
2007-10-06 15:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of stuff does he chose them over you? It sounds to me like you KNOW you shouldn't be with him....if you ain't feeling him drop him their is other fish in the sea that would choose you.....over their buddies.
2007-10-06 15:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes to be with his friends more than you. You need to let him know that he is hurting you. You also need to let him know that you love him and don't want to be without him, but he must chose whom he wants to spend more time with
2007-10-06 15:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by CAP3395 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask urself.....
is he really worth it..?
why did you like him in the first place?
how long have u known each other..?
do YOU think your being a bit clingy..?!
2007-10-06 15:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by i have questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOURS IS A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP AND YOU ARE AN ADULT THEN BREAK UP AND FIND SOMEONE WHO MEETS YOUR NEEDS. IF YOU A YOUNG TEEN JUST DATE HIM UNTIL YOU GET TIRED OF HIM.
2007-10-06 16:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bettee62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with ur friends when he wants to hang out with u !
treat him the way he treats u...it will get his attention!
2007-10-06 15:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by cherry Loves the Lord God 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋