she will probably get angry and or cry FOREVER because she is like that and she really loves this guy and I want to know how to tell her gently.HELP ME SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-06 07:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by chickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg !! i can't belive I forgot to tell you that there engaged
2007-10-06 07:47:32 · update #1
Just tell her, the longer you wait the longer she will be mad at you... There is no easy way. its just the truth, either way she's gonna be hurt.
2007-10-06 07:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Blond3 BombShell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard place to be in. Firstly - you could tell, she'll be angry with you for doing so - she could forgive him and they'll stay together and then you've made an enemy of him. Quite often when you interfere in other peoples relationship you end up the bad guy. However on the other hand, if you don't tell her, and she finds out he's cheating and that you knew - again you're not going to be popular. Have you ever thought of this - tell her boyfriend you know he's cheating (either in person or by note) and give him 24 hours to tell your best friend what he's been doing. If he doesn't, then you have to take the risk of telling your friend or letting her find out in some other way.
2007-10-06 07:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really just have to tell her. Break it to her lightly as you can. Like say: "Are you sure you really like _____? Well I saw him hanging around another girl the other day." Try to sound like you really care about her and want to help her through this hurdle in her life. See as a friend, you really just have to tell the truth. This, above anything, shows true morals and true friendship. You want to make sure she can trust you deeply. And besides, she'll eventually find out about her boyfriend anyway. And another good thing to do is to actually talk to him. Let him know how horrible he is to be cheating on your friend and give him a piece of your mind babe. I really hope you can muster up the courage to do this but eventually all of us have to make a decision in life to pick what is right or what is easy. I hope you go with the right thing! Remember that as a true friend you have to support her afterwards anyway. Be there for her and give her lots of company because she's gonna need all the support you can give her. And besides, whatever you do, she will be hurt anyway so give her a reason to be happy with you atleast. Good luck :)
2007-10-06 07:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by bubblegum5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut. She doesn't want to know, and believe me a woman always knows when she is getting cheated on. The signs will always be there. When she finds out, just be there for her and give her support. If she asks if you knew, than don't lie, but tell her that she would not have wanted to hear, so you kept your mouth shut. If she asks if you think he is cheating then tell the truth and then tell her, but only if she asks.
2007-10-06 07:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend and tell her. Or tell him that he has 1 day to tell her or you will tell him. Give him a day to do the right thing. But make sure she knows the only reason he told her was because you confronted him about it. And make sure she doesn't get back with him.
This is only if you know for SURE that he is cheating.
2007-10-06 07:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take her out to a cup of mud an tell her hay i have to tell yall some thin that may hurt ya but its some thing yall have ta know its about yalls ol man hes been tippin his boots in farmer johnsons dautters appele pie an i think ya should finde someone else who wont do that to ya and have some proof when ya say that coz she may whant some proof and if yall can proove it shell be more in tised to lisin
2007-10-06 07:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by kowboi_from_hell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her! tell her when shes not with anybody ( or she can just be with you ) because if shes with people it will bring her down and stuff.. just tell her that you care about her and you want her to know.
2007-10-06 07:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ABCD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋