Alright this is how everything started...My date asked me to go with him as his date but like as friends. he said that he isnt going to dance with other girls and stuff. Then he asked my best friend if she thought it would be okay if he goes and dances with all of his friends and dances with me a couple times. Now I understand that he wants to hang with his friends but theyre all girls!! AND I understand that if we are just friends I shouldnt over react but i'm feeling kinda sad that he wants to dance with all of his friends.How would you react.Would it be wrong to go with someone else?
2007-10-06 08:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't go back on your word... once you have said yes to a guy you can't change your mind and say you want to go with someone else. But i understand why you might be a little upset. If he didn't want to dance with you then why did he ask you, right? I would nicely mention this to him... or you could tell your friend and let him find out through word of mouth that you are offended. You do need to let him dance with some of his friends a few times, because you guys aren't dating or anything... but he deffinitely shouldn't be ditching you either. Good luck!
2007-10-06 08:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better talk to him. Tell him that you will be upset if he, as your date, plays the field all evening. You don't mind him dancing a few dances with other girls, provided you are dancing with other guys, or otherwise occupied. Yes, you're only a friend, but as his date, he needs to be attentive to your needs. You're spending way too much money on this dance to stand on the side while he tangos with the whole senior class.
TX Mom
2007-10-06 15:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him as FRIENDS. That means you can dance with your friends and other guys too. Let other guys know that you are only going as friends. He might just want to make you jealous or keep his options open for the night. You're allowed to do the same thing. Have fun and don't worry about it, you're just friends.
2007-10-06 15:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does, then you can go dance with guys. its a homecoming dance, have fun. enjoy the time groovin with your friends. dont let jealousy ruin a good time
2007-10-06 15:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You open the eyes because this is not correct person behavior. Hi
2007-10-06 15:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by angekiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds lik u hav feleings toward him... well i guess if he go wit all dem girls but he wants to dance wit u..den i guess u shud go..but if u dont think u can handle da sight, den i wudnt b his date..
2007-10-06 15:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Toki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋