I'm 18 and I've always been single. I can't get anyone interested in me; everyone I like from university just blanks me half the time-they literally turn their heads away like they're disgusted by me or summat. When I go out to clubs I dont ever meet guys either, (except one time, then he walked off). So I want to know, how do you meet guys? Like, in a club or something. I dont wanna look like a barbie doll, but from what I've seen it looks like thats the only type guys are interested in. I really dont want to sound arrogant (sorry) but I'm told I'm really pretty, and I'm always nice to people because I myself hate mean people. So I dont know what I'm doing wrong. Some one help me out please? xox
2007-10-06 23:02:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I beleive the best way to attract guys is to smile and just look like you are always having a good time...even if you are not. You do sound like a very friendly and beautiful person so if you stay positive and keep smiling guys will be attracted to that because what they want most is to meet a fun and friendly girl..not anyone who is too serious or forced or atificial. So next time you are at uni just stay smiley and friendly and dont force any type of behaviour because people can usually tell and get turn off by it.
2007-10-06 23:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Z E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you have alot of time left and alot of people to meet yet. Trust me............. there are alot of guys out there saying the same thing. Everybody is nervous about meeting someone new even though they dont act like it. Keep in mind that often in clubs there are alot of guys out there looking for only one thing. From reading this I dont get the impression that your looking for that sort of thing. Somewhere in that club there is a guy looking for something better than that too. It takes time for relationships to blossom. Just stay confident in who you are, remember that you have much to offer, dont sell yourself out over loneliness and show some initiative. Dont be too over bearing or you will turn them off (the ones you want anyway). The time will come. Dont rush it. The rushed ones never work.
2007-10-06 23:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kerrick C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...all I can say is that maybe you need to look the way you dress or your style..bec. as I've noticed guys prefer girls who can carry themselves with confidence. You said that you don't want to become a barbie doll..well you can make your own style or fashion nowadays because it's a free world.. But I do believe that time will just come and you will meet the perfect guy for you... Don't loose your self-confidence and always believe that it's their lost not yours because just like what you said you are pretty and nice....Hope I've help you with your problem!
2007-10-06 23:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by baby anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, i can inform you that your problem is that maximum adult males are assholes. besides, the adult males that are actually not assholes are those that are annoying to locate. they don't get out lots, they don't have as many acquaintances, and are commonly much less inspired. you have an notably confusing undertaking ahead of you. attempt to think of the existence of the guy you're after and calculate the place this guy or woman would spend his time. it fairly is the region to look. I take place to be a good guy, i don't drink or smoke, I actually have a super interest who treats my fiance like a queen. i don't use facebook, I even have 3 acquaintances, and the only place you have chanced on me whilst i grew to become into single grew to become into in school in college. i don't understand all of us who fits your bill, so do not ask.
2016-10-21 07:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Don't wear a lot of make up or too much perfume. Try to look as best as you could and make a few guy friends. One will come around and become interested in you when he gets to know you.
2007-10-06 23:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and me should hook up, im a 19 yr old guatemalen and black male lol. im having the same problem as well, im good looking (from what ive been told, and i believe it) and been single for 2 years, just cant meet anyone. but me being a guy i would tell you to go to shoe stores in malls like foot locker, finish line, foot action, electronic stores, things that have to do with sports, cars. go to a park that has basketball courts cuz us guys love to play ball
2007-10-06 23:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by It's My Turn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, simply remain as u are somebody will definitly come to you , for the qualities u r having not for those u r trying to show off, hence be quiet & calm
2007-10-06 23:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making yourself more approachable, smile and say hello first
2007-10-10 23:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋