theres this girl i kinda like she told me that i was a really good freind like a brother to her what does that mean do i have a chance or no
2007-10-04 01:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by eggz11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've fallen in love with two of my best friends. I've only fallen in love twice.
I'd never told either of them I thought of them 'just as a brother' though. That makes me think she is telling you she doesn't have any romantic interest in you. If you're starting to have feelings for her, clarify how she feels about you as soon as possible.
If you let yourself keep not knowing, down the line you'll have a very broken heart indeed.
All the best!
Hallam
2007-10-04 01:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by HallamFoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls do sometimes fall in love with their best friends, however, the fact that she has already told you that you were "like a brother" to her says she doesn't have those type of feelings for you right now anyhow.
However, it has happened where eventually a girl does fall for a friend she thought she would never like that way. Just remain a good friend and be yourself and who knows??
2007-10-04 01:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Marie Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...my friend is having the same exact situation.
I don't think you have chance right now cuz she thinks you as a brother which means that she doesn't want a relationship with you, but more of be really good friends kinda thing ya know? In my situation, my friend trusts this guy more than any other guy. But maybe if you keep talking to her and stuff, things will change...that's what I'm seeing with my situation...:)
2007-10-04 01:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by in l♥vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. When a woman has a male friend, her mind registers him the same way it would register a female friend; which means there is no attraction whatsoever. You're in what the laws of attraction identify as the "Friend Zone". Once you're in this zone, there is nothing you can do. If you attempt to reveal your feelings, she will feel betrayed and this will have a negative impact on your relationship with her, trust me, this happens 100% of the time, it never fails. Move on to another girl, sorry bud.
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2016-10-10 07:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive fallen for a best friend and then he got a boyfriend and completely forgot about m! if she says ur a brother or sister i doubt u have a chance, im sorry. maybe u should keep ur closeness as a brother or a sister, or maybe u should explain how u feel?
2007-10-04 01:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.. just be really friendly with her.. i wudnt say anything yet!! Ive been with my bf for 2 years and known each other since we were in primary school... then one day... we were really good m8... and all of a sudden we got really close and decided to give it a go!!!! Still going strong now!!! xxxx
You never know.. u might have a chance!!!
2007-10-04 01:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was just that you were really good friends id say you probably have a good chance but since she said your like a brother to her i think not, One of my best friends is male & like a brother to me but never have i felt anything towards him that would make me want to go out with i trust him so much tho.
2007-10-04 02:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always the case................ afriendship between man and woman always progress towards either love or hatred. This relation is never stable. Now, you case is not very clear..........because there is a brother feeling likelihood. I think it will tend to hatred if you try to.
2007-10-04 01:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by My-E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why i avoid it at the first place!!!
i cant be best friends with boys cos i'm easy off falling for guys..so, now i got a boyfriend, i totally avoid being friends with guys..haha
thats my problems.
guys never expect his best girl friend will fall in love with them, so expect this unexpected.. ;))
2007-10-04 02:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by me__mine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋