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I'm curious about how girls view their breasts...both before and after they have kids. I'm not asking about breast size or whether you're satisfied with your breasts. Rather, I'm curious about whether you view your breasts more as objects of sexual desire or more as a natural provision for feeding your babies. Obviously, these aren't mutually exclusive. I'm just curious about your feelings. I'm curious to know if you have been pregnant or had kids...and then, maybe a percentage...like 60% desire, 40% feeding...something like that. Thanks!

2007-10-04 17:17:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

we look in a general downward direction and whaddya know there they are. Hope this helps.

2007-10-04 17:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by christina h 5 · 2 0

Idk - Before I had my daughter I thought my breast were girly, like a 12 year old(it wasn't a question of size just fullness, and I also had flat nipples, which I didn't even realized was a "thing") I guess I thought they were much more sexual. Than I had my daughter. After nursing, my nipples are now "normal" and my breast are more full. I would definately say they are more womanly. I knowlonger see them as sexual, but I am still nursing a bit, so maybe when I am totally done, but until there is no more milk, it is hard to feel sexy about your breasts. You certaintly don't want someone feeling them up, I mean your baby eats there.

2007-10-04 17:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 1 0

This is an odd question.

I had a kid and I breastfed for 4 months.
I really don't think my view of them changed once I quit breastfeeding from how I saw them before. They served a utility DURING breastfeeding, obviously.

Basically, I see them as part of my body, not "objects," as you put it. My body is a whole. And, word to the wise: if you want to be a good lover, look at the woman as a whole and pay attention to ALL parts of her body, k? It's highly annoying when a man thinks you are comprised of just a few distinct parts. Ugh.

2007-10-04 17:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I am 30 and don't have children.

I view my breasts as a nuisance. They are heavy, big and in the way. They make it difficult/painful to exercise. I don't get much sexual pleasure from them, but my husband does. (go figure)

Frankly, I wish as a species we didn't have developed breasts when we aren't nursing young. They are useless except for feeding offspring.

2007-10-04 17:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0 0

Never been pregnant. So I don't view them as a food source at this time.

I feel that my breasts make me womanly. They can be used to entice and there is a certain charm in that (even though I don't purposely go around trying to entice people with my boobies - I am a married woman! lol).

2007-10-04 17:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by higherlovetx 5 · 1 0

I would say this is an odd question... I am 22 and have a 3 year old son. I didn't nurse him. They were a bit nicer before preg, but over all they are just there. Sure guys like to oogle them, and I know my guy likes to play with them, but really, do you think about your's that often. I don't think the average woman cares as much as you would think.

Oh and, we are women...

2007-10-04 17:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

When i was younger i didnt think too much about it...but since you ask....
They have always been mine....
I have 3 kids who are past the bottle stage by far..youngest is 10 yrs. old.... I bottle fed the first two but had to breastfeed the 3rd cuz she wouldnt drink formula right away and for her health i had no choice....but it only lasted 3 mos. cuz she ate alot!!!
Now that i am older and (32) and way past the baby stage....
I say they are.....
100% DESIRE!!!!

2007-10-04 17:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by NASCAR GAL #29 FAN 4 · 3 0

I view them in the mirror when I'm getting dressed in the morning.

2007-10-04 17:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mary B 5 · 1 0

to me, they're just like my pinky toe. i don't really notice them unless my attention is drawn to them so i'd say. 50% sexual, and when i have kids, it'll probably skew to 35%desire, 65% feeding

2007-10-04 17:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie 5 · 1 0

what are you asking? are their breasts for feeding of sex? or are you asking if they think about them at all? which is what I think, people don't pay attention to what ever it is, unless it doesn't work like its suppost to.

2007-10-04 17:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0 0

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