if i don't be back with him! hes going to cut him self! what should i do?
2007-10-04 17:38:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he really did it! i saw a big *** cut on his arm!
2007-10-04 17:40:48 · update #1
He won't.
People try to blackmail ex-partners like this all the time, but nothing will come of it.
2007-10-04 17:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're under 18, tell an adult, like a guidance counselor. They're trained to deal with stuff like this.
If you're over 18, might want to call a suicide prevention hotline and ask for advice or give him the number, at a minimum.
But, don't get back together with him. He shouldn't be trying to manipulate you like this.
2007-10-05 00:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get back with him then you'd be in an even more difficult situation..
just tell him hes so ******* stupid and tell him this turns you off even more and makes you not even NOt wanna be with him even MORE
don't worry it's not like he's gonna die..
he's probably gone take one olf those sissy two blade razors and slit it across his wrist
those razors cause barely any damage even though theydo make you bleed it's not like they'll kill you..
you know how when you shave your legs and it slips and you cut yourself or you cut yourself and you dont even notice..
dont worry ists not painful
if he was serious he could atleast not be such a pussy and cut off his head for the sake of the world
anyways it would be smart to tell his mom to keep a whatch out and tell her to promise you she wont tell him it was yu
..she may help you and help thata dumb emo fromcausing himself pointless possible scaring..
whattadumbpeiceoflife
2007-10-05 00:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from him. He is trying to control you and if you go back he will continue to do so. If you are afraid that he will hurt himself call the suicide hot line. Most people that say that for blackmail are full of it.
2007-10-05 00:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is, find a healthier boyfriend. If both of you are minors, you may want to tell his parents. His threats are emotional abuse and manipulation, and you need to get away from this guy. But whatever happens, if he hurts himself in response, it is NOT your fault.
2007-10-05 00:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him the name, address and phone number of a top Psychiatrist in your neighbohood. People who talk about taking their lives, or harming themselves are just putting a guilt trip on the person they perceive as the one who has hurt them. Please do not take these threats too seriously.
2007-10-05 00:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Guys lie, bc they know girls are very sensitive and fall for things like that. You should tell him how you really feel and if he doesn't like it, he will have to move on. You can't stay with someone you really don't truly like forever! You shouldn't anyways. You shouldn't date someone just bc you feel sorry for them! That's not what it's about.
2007-10-05 00:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by pitcheer358 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hes not even the kind guy you should be dating with. Its up to you to make a decision, if you like him get back with him but if you dont just tell him. or something.
2007-10-05 00:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ophelia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend was going thru this EXACT situation. honestly, if this guy is too insecure to let you do what you'd rather do, then he is crazy. if he threatens you with hurting himself, he IS CRAZY. what kind of guy tries to make you feel guilty? he doesn't truly love you if he's trying to guilt trip you.
2007-10-05 00:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A dog that bark most likely won't bite. Just let him be himself, he's not your responsibility unless you're volunteered.
2007-10-05 00:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Salonnv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋