Ok so lately my boyfriend and I haven't been seeing eye to eye. I have a lot of guy friends and he has a lot of female friends. I have NEVER talked about any of my guy friends to him...okay once...but never again because i sensed he was jealous. But he talks about his "home girls" all the time, which bugs me a little. He knows it bug the hell out of me and yet he continues. ok digressing a bit.
But lately it seems the only thing we've been doing is "arguing"...i dont mean yelling back and forth and having choice words, but him getting mad because he thinks i have been ignoring him....which i haven't done the entire relationship. and that pisses me off because i dont know why he's upset.
So today i asked him if he was ok and he got so bent out of shape and asked me why all of a sudden im askin if he's all right and what not. And that there threw me over the top. It's like excuse me for caring and trying to fix whatever is going on. Ususally its the other way around.
2007-10-04 18:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica Renee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think none of you are fit for a relationship. There is insecurity both ways. Sorry to be rude ... but I guess your BF is just slightly worse than you are. This is not working out and probably it never will.
Get a civilized seperation without either of you calling each other names.
2007-10-04 18:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have a lot of stress on his live , very possible he is frustated with something on his personal life school grades, family problems,finantial, etc. or maybe he is just finding an excused to make you mad so you stop the relationship... not sure maybe he feels that he want to spent more time doing his own things. many guys like to have their freedom.
2007-10-05 01:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is looking for a reason to get out of the relationship. when he talks about his friends talk about yours as well. He sounds pretty immature so be prepared for that relationship to fail, and consider yourself lucky that you see this in him before you were married.
2007-10-05 01:58:28 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. goin through somethin he doesnt wanna mention because he doesnt want you to look at him differently..
2. (forbid) he's gettin on your nerves on purpose and he want you to end it so he's not the bad guy =/
or 3. want you to notice him more so he can seem sweeter after his make up speech.
or 4 he's actin different towards you untill he figures out whats he's gonna do himself..
2007-10-05 01:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Earth☮Studies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your guy's insecure. When he continues to talk about his girl friends with you even when he knows you don't like it, it sounds like he's constantly trying to gauge how much you like him - i.e. level of possessiveness (jealousy). It sounds like he's come to his own conclusion that you don't feel about him like he feels about you, or he's actually getting tired and wants you to be the one to break it off with him cause he doesn't want to be the one to do it.
2007-10-05 02:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by Landie Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry, but, i have to say this.. maybe both of u aren't cut out to be together i know.. so, i'm so sorry..
2007-10-05 02:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Gee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋