im embarrased by it...i have small boobs...im just skinny and muscular...i guess ill get my belly button pierced?? i dont know...i want to do it..but im scared my boyfriend wont like my body. and then he will probbaly break up with me.im just not up for getting breast implants either...i think its gross. it sucks cauz my body is whats getting in the way of it and im scared about telling him...this always happens and then i feel like i have to break up with them cauz of it...what should i do??
2007-10-04 17:19:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend dont love you because of your body, he loves you because of you are who you are, no matter how you look.
Don't worry, it's not worth thinking about it. If your boyfriend didnt love you because of your body, he didnt really love you.
2007-10-04 17:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you think your boyfriend won't like your body and that's the only reason you're not doing it, it's probably best that you keep your pants on... it doesn't sound like you're ready. And by the way, a lot of guys don't care how big your boobs are, and a lot even prefer them to be small. But hold off on having sex until you're more comfortable with yourself, b/c you'll regret it if you do it now and get hurt.
2007-10-05 00:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First i will say that girls who have nice boobs and get implants to get bigger ones is stupid. Even girls that have small ones but get them too big is stupid. I think you should look into getting implants if it is really bothering you that much but get them to fit you body not too big. Girls with a little fram anything bigger makes a big difference. Secondly I would recommend dating guys who are not looking for sex until marriage. Guys who want to wait until marriage are not going to date you just for sex so you dont have to worry about them being untrustworthy in that. Also you wont have to worry about them cheating. Most of these guys are religious though so I'm not sure if that is you. If it is, get more involved in your church and look for a good guy. My church is big and really cool so they have singles nights and college night and stuff like that for people to meet new people and get more envovled with the church. Anywho those are my suggestions. good luck.
2007-10-05 00:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about it and relax. One of my better relationships was with a woman with very small boobs and it didn't slow us down one bit. And as for implants, don't waste your money on such goofy crap,well only if you had a breast removed from cancer or something , you wouldn't want to be lopsided. You are worrying to much. Pick up your self confidence, none of us are perfect.
2007-10-05 00:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably too young for sex. You need to wait until you have grown enough to be comfortable in your body and love it for being home to your soul. If you want sex to be really great and memorable, wait until you find a partner who feels that way about your body too.
2007-10-05 00:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're are being far to critical on yourself - you wouldn't have a boyfriend unless you had something going for you - e.g. looks, good personality. Anyway your boyfriend will be nervous about his body as well - Just don't rush into sex - it should be treated as a big decision
2007-10-05 00:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tom B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to be comfortable with yourself. I used to feel the same way. I felt that he would just be criticizing how I looked but that is usually not hte case at all. Just be comfortable with yourself and chances are your boyfriend will probably love the way you look just how you are.
2007-10-05 00:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound insecure. I think part of it might be because you're not ready for have sex. And if you boyfriend is still with you now, it means that he doesn't care if you have small boobs or large ones. He likes you for you.
2007-10-05 00:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♪♫♥♫♪♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey honestly maybe you just have low self esteem know that you r beautiful no matter what any one says give yourself time to love you first and if the guy does truly love you then you shouldn't have a problem if all else fails, find some one who will appreciate you for u. p.s. don't give up
2007-10-05 00:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. They're guys who appreciate small natural breast. Small and natural is better than large and fake.
Be proud of what you have.
You sound adorable. Stay that way.
2007-10-05 00:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by tiscpa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he would break up with you over the way your body looks why would you want him as a boyfriend. from your description nothing sounds wrong with The way you look and i am sure you can find someone who likes you and wants to have sex with you regardless of the way you look
2007-10-05 00:25:03 · answer #11 · answered by jaws65 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋