Thank you to every one who helped me with my first question, but i still dont understand why my friend would keep going back to this guy who she knows is only going to cheat on her time and time again? Does anyone have an explination?
2007-10-04 19:34:22 · 4 answers · asked by ZoZzA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think low self esteem is at the very root of the problem, but also the hope that the cheater will see how much she really loves him. It's the hope that love will make him change and he'll only want her. It sucks, I know. Some people have to keep running into that brick wall a couple of times, before THEY don't want to do it anymore.
2007-10-04 19:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by gurlycirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the main reason why people stay in a cheaters relationship is because they have ZERO self steem, even if they are good looking. Their partners are such emotionally abusers that they make the victim believe that they are the best thing they could have and no one else is better than they are meaning the abuser. Self steem issues affect alot of women out there, but once your friends take the control and self steem back she will be ok.
2007-10-05 02:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by timbalita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he has been cheating on her, she may feel insecure about her worth. If that is the case, she is afraid of having to be out on her own. She is afraid that no one else will find her desirable. Insecurity!! She needs to realize that it is not her fault that he is cheating. He would do it if she was Miss America!! He is just a person with low moral character!
2007-10-05 02:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Other that she loves him and she hopes one day he will realize that she won't leave and he will be with her ask her she is the only one that knows that answer????????love and sex what else??????? that plays a big part in a relationship??????????
2007-10-05 02:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋