It's been 6 months since I broke up with my ex-gf. She was super gorgeous, I was lucky to have her.
I am an average guy, I am average in sports and almost in everything. I am looking for a new gf, and move on from my past. I know I don't deserve very nice looking girls, because I just an average guy.
The thing is I can't really find average-looking girls attractive, so, how to make myself interested to average-looking women?
2007-10-04 19:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, the thing is that without a photo, I don't know if you are just an average looking guy. You could be a complete stunner that just lacks self confidence.
I don't think you need to "train" yourself to find "average" women attractive, you just need to find the one that attracts you. Everyone finds different features attractive in the opposite sex and you just yet have to find that quality in the right girl. BTW, don't ever think that you don't deserve someone!
2007-10-04 19:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by firefly2326 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem, I'm a girl that broke up with a gorgeous guy & can't beleive he was ever interested in me. However, he knew he was gorgeous & he had an ego over it to the point I'm not sure he would ever have fallen in love with me, or anyone else for that matter. But you know it is shallow and what can attract you to someone if not always just their looks, you could meet an average person eventually where you have extra chemistry with them because of how they make you feel or just how they are as a person. Average people are often nicer people than the gorgeous ones & more genuine about the relationship.
2007-10-04 19:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with that guy. Stop viewing youself as 'average'. You'll never get a babe that way.
A good tactic would be to stop focusing on the negatives of the way people look. If they don't have a model-perfect face, but a really nice smile and are in relatively good shape, that should be enough for you to approach them. If they're really cool and nice, then nature will probably take it's course.
And NEVER compare any girl to your ex-gf. You're asking for trouble that way.
2007-10-04 20:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so shallow. But seriously, one of my exes broke up with me because he said I was too attractive, and his father always told him, Marry the ugly ones so you don't have to worry about another man taking her from you. There's an idea. Or maybe just live with what you like, and don't give in just because you're "average". I concider my self average and I've dated alot of good looking guys. Be your self, and you'll get the good looking girl you want. Just be patient and try not to try too hard
2007-10-04 19:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by TMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to ask her out. If you are interested in her and you feel she is compatible with you then ask her out. Do not feel as if you do not deserve affection just because her nose is really cute or she has pretty eye lashes. Both of you are human and both of you have good qualities about yourselves. She can not control what she looks like just like you can not control what you look like. Just ask her out. You can, at the very least have her friendship.
2016-04-07 05:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make yourself change what you like. because in your eyes certain girls are your type and maybe you find them gorgeous but someone else might not feel the same way. You just have to wait it out. there are some situations where u become good friends with a girl and as time passes you start to find her beautiful in your eyes.
2007-10-04 19:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by Naz B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you can start by not thinking that you are only an average sort of guy. believe in yourself, have confidence. who would want to go out with you if even you don't even believe that anyone will want you ????
be good at something and be very good.
2007-10-04 19:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by the_justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on personality, not looks. seriously, i'm not being an *** or anything. i'm attracted to people that are fun to hang out with and such, not necessarily to the really "hott" people.
2007-10-04 19:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are spoiled because your still looking for a gal like you had before and you may never find it i think you still love this gal so why don't you just get her back???????? be happy good luck
2007-10-04 19:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think...the rest of your life you are going to spend searching for a girl you won't ever get, ....should cure you ?
2007-10-04 19:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Featherman 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋