I'm 34 and I've been seeing this much younger guy, he's 22. It was supposed to be a no strings sex thing between us then we got more personal. We both were acting like we were actually in a relationship. Then he got scared and said that i am too attached and now he just wants to be friends, etc. ( i know that's not true cuz the sex is great!!!!!)
We have not talked in over a week now and i've ben sending texts and called twice and he only responded ot 1 of my texts. my friend said i should stop sending him desperate texts and lay off for awhile, then apologize and say i was just tripping and all i want from him is to have booty calls from time to time. do u think he'll buy it cuz that is all i really want. i just got carried away. do u think it's too late or what can i say for another chance?
2007-10-04 20:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know what they say........
Why buy the cow if you're getting the milk for free...........
2007-10-04 20:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by kenny p 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send him a text now. Say 'sorry i got so attached, all i wanted was a casual thing. Text me when you want to catch up xoxo' something basic- guys dont have very long attention spans. haha Because he's still very young he's probably i bit scared of commitment. Which is the only reason he wants a bit of space.
2007-10-05 03:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by ZoZzA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that maybe he was afraid of committment. I've been in his situation before and theres probably more to the story than he's letting on to.
Just give him a few weeks off and see what happens.
2007-10-05 03:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by thealexirr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop calling or texting he's gonna start to wonder why?
Then he will call you to see why your not texting him. Make him wait a little while, he'll be calling and texting you.
2007-10-05 03:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its too late. give him another week or two to relax and feel free again. then casually tell him that you realize you just got silly and want to go back to the sex having.
and prove it too, the first few times you do it, just be completly business like about it
2007-10-05 03:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't call him or not even test him if he want you he would call you guys don't like it when a women keeps on calling even if the sex is good. i say laid low for a while he will call.
2007-10-05 03:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by <3♥Judy♥<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate cries give men the upper hand. When they have the upper hand, they walk all over you. Back off.
2007-10-05 03:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your friend's advice.
He's a kid, he will definitely want to change partners, even if there is no marriage looming on the horizon.
2007-10-05 03:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by aetheru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him come to you. he will.
you SMS's and calling him all the time is contradicting what you are telling him you want (booty calls). leave it be and give it time,
2007-10-05 03:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space, if he is interested he'll contact you.
2007-10-05 03:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'll be your booty call, where you from.....im a military guy, 21..from texas...
2007-10-05 03:32:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋