Singles & Dating - 1 October 2007

why is it that i have never fallen in love or no one has ever fallen in love with me? i've always wondered what it felt to love/be loved...to feel butterflies in u'r stomach, to constantly think of that special someone, and all the 'symptoms' of falling in love......

why hasn't it happened to me? i mean, i am not a bad person, really...i'm not. i am driven, determined, kind, compassionate, intelligent, humble, down-to-earth...and other qualities that is generally appealing to those type of guys that would be my better half.

can n e one tell me, without being cynical, why i haven't met mr. wonderful or fallen in love yet???

2007-10-01 18:16:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

any experiences or fate stuff like that?

2007-10-01 18:10:37 · 5 answers · asked by gwynth s 2

I don't know if this is just my girlfriend or all girls, because I've only been with 1 girl ever.. but do all girls have HUGE moodswings everyday?? One minute she hates me, the next she loves me, and the next she wants to kill herself. I dont know if this is normal or not, and its scaring me and I dont like it. I would understand if she was having mood swings during her period or pms, and i know that girls have a hard time during that part of the month.. but this is happeneing everyday. is this normal at all?

2007-10-01 18:08:05 · 21 answers · asked by Maxwell 1

So it was his number one fantasy,the thing that turns him on the most,he never forced me to,but let me know how much he loves it...always talking about it...i was tired of it and decided to give me what he was craving so much...we did it 2 days ago with my best friend.next morning i had a breakdown..he ensured me he loves only me and forever and that he didnt need it,i initiated it..but i now have the image of him kissing her,touching and f..ing in my had..cant think of anything else...what to do? can u forget something like this? we've been dating for 2 years and his says he wants me to be his wife in the future..also he says he would've not done it if he knew i would react this way..i really love him....can it ever be the same again? i want to hear guy's perspective too.

2007-10-01 18:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Woman 2

My penis keeps on growing at an extremly fast pace.

I am 16 years old and all of a sudden it seems(it started quickly about two months ago) it keeps on growing.

Right now I measure it to be 19 and a half inches. I belive it is still growing!

How can i stop it?!?!

2007-10-01 18:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think i'm ok looking guy. tall, into sports, smart. But why can't i find a girl? Please don't say you haven't found it yet or it'll happened. because I been looking and rejected by girls for almost 3yrs. I wanna know what i'm doing wrong.

2007-10-01 18:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by hahaiwon 2

2007-10-01 18:01:51 · 2 answers · asked by majdah m 1

I cry during sex.

2007-10-01 17:56:11 · 1 answers · asked by Emo Soul 1

she wants to get away from her bf and she wants me to help her, thing is, her bf will probaly start fighting. do i do it?ps i love the girl to death.

2007-10-01 17:46:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my man once flirted with this younger girl before behind my back a few yrs ago. And I also know that before we hooked up, he cheated on almost all his other gfs. But we've been living 2gether for 4 years now...could he have changed? He was in his teens when he cheated on all those other girls, now he's 24.
Can I trust him?

2007-10-01 17:40:15 · 28 answers · asked by Gwen 3

Ok so I’m super good friends with this guy named John. We went out like 3 years ago, but it was just kinda modest. I didn’t fall for him or anything. But now I’m dating my current boyfriend and have been for 8 months now. We both have fallen in love with each other. But he thinks I have too much of a “special bond” with John. Honestly I don’t like John at all, he’s just always been there, I’ve cried on his shoulder many of times. He’s my good friend, and I’m in love with my boyfriend. But he’s worried that John and I have something more going on, since one of John’s text messages said “I love you” to me. Which my boyfriend saw and got worried. John has told me before that he really really likes me, and has for a while…
How do I convince my boyfriend there is nothing going on with John and i?

2007-10-01 17:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes extremely busy thats why he only calls me once or twince during the week....but we meet every weekend and I know hes not cheating on me....
when we talk about the phone issue he says hes not a phone person and his conversations with friends r usually 3 mins long
but in ALL my past relationships talking on the phone has been VITAL...so this bothers me alot...
how IMPORTANT is talking on the phone in relationships????
(we've been together 8months and he talks about marriage , we r both 25.)

2007-10-01 17:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by kera 2

2007-10-01 17:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by S C 1

Yeah theres this guy, a close fren, nothing much..apparently last weekend he wanted to watch movie but i wasnt in...didnt ask me straight but came a few time to my house tht day to find me...got to know this from my housemate, which is a guy..but whts confusing me is that at the same time he asked my housemate to go together with us which is rather confusing me..

when im finally back tht nite, he keep asking where ive been and why didnt i invite him..and suggested we go the next day for the movie..unfortunately ive another appoinment the next day...so in the end he decided not go anymore.

the question is,if he likes me more then a fren then why drag my housemate together? if he dont like me, then why keep finding for me to go together..he can always go with my housemate or with other people?any answers?

2007-10-01 17:11:45 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie Y 3

ok am just kinda frustrated right now so please read and tell me if am just wasting my time on this guy..PLEASE.Ok so this guy and I used to talk and we both liked eachother and even went out and hung out at my house a few times but we never did anything..not even kiss. I have never been in a serious relationship and am 20(he's 20 too). Anyway so one day I finally asked this guy where "we" were going with "us" and he said he had something to figure out with his ex..that got me kinda confused so I didnt call him until he called me one random day(2/3 weeks later) and I really was TRYING to get over him so I was being sorta mean..so that convo ended pretty fast. So anyway, about 2 weeks went by again and we hadnt spoken until I called him to thank him for the B/day gift he sent me which then got me thinkiing 'why would he send me a gift if he didnt want anything to do with me?' ..that convo was better than our last but I cut it short cause I honestly didnt know the right words to say...

2007-10-01 17:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Cilantro 5

well, i am 18, she's either 19 or 20...
so...
what's your opinion?

2007-10-01 17:07:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanted to know if love in the movies is like that in real life like all the passion and the beautiful relationships.. is love like that or is it one of those things u just see at the movies?

2007-10-01 17:05:51 · 9 answers · asked by cheli_luvr24 3

do guy's really like skinny girl's with no boob's or butt no shape or would they rether a lil bit chuckyer girl with big boobs and a nice butt with a gr8 shape im lost what do they like better

2007-10-01 17:04:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 17:01:46 · 5 answers · asked by ted_ard2 1

this guy gabriel that i am currently talking to is 18 i am 16 we have not had sex but we have dryfucked which some of you may know but some may not we've done this once and messed around several times. last time i talked to him was two days ago and he said he thinks about me everyday and he wants to call me but he knows my parents don't like him. is he making excuses?? we don't get to see each other very much so when we see each other we both get shy and then after about an hour we start talking more and more till one thing leads to another what should i do. please give me an honest answer. i love this guy more than anything and he means the world to me. and i just want to know what is going on in his head.

2007-10-01 17:00:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 16:54:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have bent over backwards for him. I have gone places I did not want to go just to please him. I have watched stuff on TV I am not interested in just to make him happy. I have done way too much over the last few years to satisfy him just so he could treat me like a door mat.
Tonite, he got so mad because I was cleaning up a spare bedroom and told him I did not actually like to watch CSI. He would not kiss me goodbye or hug me or anything and went home. He lives about 3 blocks or so away from me.
Is it me or is it him. We had a nice evening sitting in the swing outside and watching the stars, but when he found out I didnt want to watch his prized TV show, he threw a fit. I told him I have been doing a lot of things for him and its going to stop because he hasnt taken me into consideration for anything he ever does for example he went to his class reunion and did not invite me. He goes to football games and doesnt invite me. I am tired of being ignored. Is it me or him?

2007-10-01 16:53:03 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2007-10-01 16:52:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really quiet and pretty shy until you get to know me. I feel like I'm "unlikeable" to guys, and whenever I have a suspicion that a guy might like me, I just tell myself it's impossible because I'm so quiet. Are there any quiet people out there who've found really compatible boyfriends or girlfriends? Also, does 2 quiet people together work, or is one person usually quiet and the other loud?

2007-10-01 16:49:10 · 13 answers · asked by Katy H 3

I am 21 and in Maryland, and there is a Navy Recreation Base in Solomons where my family used to go, courtesy of my grandfather who was once in the Air Force. Unfortunately, my grandma died and my mother, brother, and sister are no longer living in Maryland but are instead living with a crazy bipolar woman in Troy, NY whom my mother met online (LONG story). But the point is we can no longer go to the Navy Recreation Base, and yet I would like to be able to at least just like visit it again because it was so much fun, and I just want to see it again. But the only way I could even visit it would be if I was with someone who is/was in the military, i.e. if I met a guy who was in the military and we ended up together. Likewise, I do not want to date/marry/have a bf who is younger than me, or who is more than 5 years older than me. So are there any single guys between the ages of 21-26 who are, or are trying to be in the military and you are reading this and you want a gf?

2007-10-01 16:48:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do most asian girls go for white guys instead of asian guys?

2007-10-01 16:48:21 · 21 answers · asked by nic 5

This guy that I really like was talking to me about why he was single and how he feels that a foundation is needed for any relationship. Well, I agreed with him, but, I made a comment saying that I thought my ex-boyfriend and I would always be friends because we have a foundation. Also, my ex-boyfriend called while he was at my house and I told him that I was talking to the new guy that I like and the new guy got mad because he said that it was none of my ex-boyfriends business that I was talking to him. This new guy and I have had a sexual relationship and I really like him and I think he really likes me but, I don't know what to do to make things right. How do I redeem myself after this to let him know that I really like him. Even if it seems that my ex-boyfriend and I are still in contact with each other?

2007-10-01 16:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its dang near impossible!

2007-10-01 16:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by LovelyMe 2

I'm 18, I'm slim and I'm nicer than most girls these days. I don't go out for the bad boys type, I don't go to clubs or bars or whatever. People outside compliment me saying I look pretty, gorgeous and they even compliment my outfits too. Yet... no one ever asks me out? So is there any tips and tricks on how to lure someone? I know I can do that seductive thingie but I'm too scared he might be taken or not like me. Is there any way or location or whatever that you can suggest that they would be comfortable to approach me?

PS - I live in NYC and I'm 18... And I'm not stuck up or conceited, I'm asking a question because I need help... not to brag...

2007-10-01 16:44:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is the girl whom I really like, and she doesn't share the same feelings towards me. I have been trying to get over her by meeting a lot of different girls and getting to know them. However, in the end, I think about this same girl again every night before my day goes out (before I go to bed).

It'd be nice if I could just choose not to love this girl anymore. I really thought she was the one for me. But this situation has indicated otherwise.

Wouldn't it be nice if we could fall in love with someone who was previously in love with us ?

What's your opinion on this ? INPUTS, PLEASE

2007-10-01 16:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4