I'm really quiet and pretty shy until you get to know me. I feel like I'm "unlikeable" to guys, and whenever I have a suspicion that a guy might like me, I just tell myself it's impossible because I'm so quiet. Are there any quiet people out there who've found really compatible boyfriends or girlfriends? Also, does 2 quiet people together work, or is one person usually quiet and the other loud?
2007-10-01 16:49:10 · 13 answers · asked by Katy H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my best friend is really quiet and she had never kissed a guy until she told another friend she liked this guy. her friend told the guy how my best friend felt and she FLIPPED OUT. she was soooo shy she didnt even wanna talk to him. now they are going out and i love it because hes really loud and open and he brings out the loud in her. u hafta go for it. DONT HOLD BACK!
2007-10-01 16:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shy chicks are hot. Loud ones are annoying. I'm kind of loud myself though, so maybe its that opposites thing....
Yeah, I'm sure lots of guys love shy girls. Everyone has their own type, and shy is one of them. Your only possible problem would be instigating things. if you're too shy to ask someone out or show a guy that you're interested than you'll never get anywhere. Especially if you like a shy guy, than neither of you will ever get the guts to ask each other out. That's why shy+shy usually doesn't work.
Anyway, shy is cute, but don't be afraid to be outgoing when you need to be. Its not impossible for someone to like you just because you're quiet! But they may not act on their feelings because you're so quiet that they might not think you're interested!
2007-10-01 16:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kate C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 17 year old guy and a pretty quiet person and have dated many girls. All of which have been pretty outgoing and loud. so there is defiantly no reason that you shouldn't be able to find a bf just because your quiet. Good Luck
2007-10-01 16:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by 10is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet and shy people are able to get boyfriends and girlfriends. I am like yourself, I'm usually shy and quiet until I get to know someone better. From past experience I have dated girls that weren't as shy as I was but I have also dated girls that were. And when I was with girls that quieter then I it kind of forced me to become more talkative. But don't worry you will meet someone, just be yourself.
2007-10-01 16:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jim M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally i think everyone has that special someone out there for them. Even if the person has not appeared yet it will happen!
I'm a really really shy person and I am happily settled aye!! there is proof that shy people have someone out there! :)
2007-10-01 16:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-10-01 16:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Water 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I was shy and quiet and had a gf but she broke up with me cause she was tired of talking to a brick wall *that's me*
so it's time you came out of that shell of yours
it's okay to feel shy when talking to a guy that you like
but if you have to be more opened to them
and second quit doubting yourself, you can do this
2007-10-01 16:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by general_reven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is hope for you. a quiet person is found usually with a loud person its just natural.
2007-10-01 16:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my really quiet and shy..but once i get to know someone i am abit louder and let people know me abit better.
My boyfriend is really out spoken..loud..and likes meeting people..so he can talk to whoever even he has met them for just 5 mins..
and we've been together for 2.5 years.
2007-10-01 16:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-10-01 16:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Caljuggling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋