2007-10-01 16:52:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By totally forgiving that person and move on.
I know it's easier to say than done and you might not understand what I'm saying because you're still in an angry state of mind.
By giving him a reaction, he got you where he wanted you ...think about it.
2007-10-01 16:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy - don't.
It's really tempting to get revenge, especially if it would be easy or if you have scenarios already planned. However, it almost always ends badly & many times you'll come out looking like a worse person because of it. It usually makes people look petty & jealous while it gives the other person a chance to make you feel even worse by making snide comments about you (and trust me, they'll be saying some horrible things). There may be someone who's watching you & wanting to be with you now that the loser is gone that may change their mind because they think you are petty or psycho.
By moving on & refusing to take revenge you'll appear to be the bigger person & more of an adult than the other person. Besides, what goes around comes around. It may not happen today or even next week, but karma always seems to get people in the end.
2007-10-01 16:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget that person. To hate someone takes too much time. To think about revenge hurts you even more.
2007-10-02 13:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge lowers you the level below the person you choose to hurt. Planning and acting out to purposely hurt another person in REACTION to something they did or said to you, makes you MORE wicked, because YOU already know how it feels.
What you put out there always comes back to you - - if it is bad negative nasty evil thinking and done in spite, it comes back to you ten times worse. Trust me, it is NOT worth it.
2007-10-01 17:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a better person than they and get on with your life. Show them that what they did didn't ruin you. Getting "revenge" never comes out the way you intended and may just reinforce how they affected you.
2007-10-01 16:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by toodle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Put icy hot in their underwear.
2007-10-01 17:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋