We work in two different departments and I see him occasionaly when he comes up to my floor. I feel like I am sooooo infatuated by him, like, this is the biggest crush I have ever had in my life. My heart skips a beat when he comes around and I can't breathe when he is close to me. I just want to reach out and stroke him, just one nice looooonnnng time. When he is talking to me, I just want to kiss him and start making out right then and there. He was sitting very closely behind me the other day rocking his leg and it was tapping my azz. It was driving me crazy so I slid up. I'm not sure if he knows that I like him yet but I want to make it known to him very soon. He asked when was the next time that I worked and it just so happens that I'm on the same schedule as him. Somebody please tell me... What do I do?
2007-10-01 21:47:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never shiite where you eat.
they may be setting you up for a sexual harassment suit
2007-10-01 21:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Effu 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love is love.. Love sure is a beautiful thing to feel.. However, if your company were to forbid you to engage in any romantical relationship with fellow workers, then I think that you should not venture any further. Love is important for you, but don't you think that your carrier and future is even more important? He is just 1 guy out of many, you only have 1 chance in life, don't ruin it.
But, if your company do not have any law that put u in disadvantage, then I think that you should just keep on doing what u r doing now. Act like normal, don't let him know that you like him yet. Let time goes by. He will surely make the first move. I am a guy, and I would prefer to be the one who initiates the move, rather than having the girl being more aggresive than me. That is all i can say.
2007-10-02 04:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anediz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When a person feels like you do, after the first date you will not want to be with him again. So how are you going to handle it when he keeps trying to come into your work area. It is never good to date co-workers. You could lose your job over this.
2007-10-02 04:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's always a potential drama situation to date co-workers. Just say the two of you get serious, and then one of you gets hurt. You will not be able to get rid of that person, cause you will be at work with them all the time.
Do you just want to have sex with him, or date him. Be careful.Cause it sounds like just sex. If it's just sex, Rumors can be spread.
I would say, go ahead and date him, but just know all of the consequences if it doesn't work out.
2007-10-02 04:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Imdatchick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive been sleeping with my boss for months. we keep it strictly sex.... its fun because no one knows about us.. so at work it makes things more exciting! So, if anything does happen... keep your mouth shut.. and make sure he does too. dont let everyone know! other co-workers will ruin it. have fun!! but be careful and dont get your emotions too tied up in it.
2007-10-02 05:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by k8tlaydee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do it unless there is a reporting relationship between the two of you or some weird power dynamic.
People who say you shouldn't just hate nookie. I'll never understand them.
Get some!
2007-10-02 04:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by QuestionMan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
PEOPLE SAY NO BUT i'M GON GIVE YOU THE REAL. i DID THAT IN UM, 2005. I LIKED THE GUY AND ALL , NEVERMIND.....
LOOK, WHAT YOU FEEL WHEN YOU PASS HIM IT FEELS GOOD RIGHT? RIGHT!
DONT RUIN THAT PLEASURABLE SCHOOL-GIRL-CRUSH-FEELING. bECAUSE IT FEELS GOOD. IF YOU TRY TO DATE HIM IT WILL DEFINATLY RUIN YOUR COMFOT LEVEL AND YOUR WORK.
DONT BITE THE APPLE
I DID AND I FEEL STUPID TILL THIS DAY....
2007-10-02 04:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a risk of drama in any relationship. i did it and didnt have any problems, we didnt tell anybody about it, just had fun together.
2007-10-02 05:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never had any luck dating coworkers
2007-10-02 04:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give it a good go.
2007-10-02 04:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by spiderheart 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋