there's a girl whom i don't know very well, but a little. friend of a friend.
tonight, i saw her for the first time since the spring. she said several times that i looked nice and complimented some of the stuff i was wearing, even though i wasn't dressed up, really. she also laughed at my jokes. both of us are straight and single.
i have lost some weight and got some new clothes since i saw her last. (i didn't change for her, obviously.)
is this a sign of attraction, or just nothing?
2007-10-01 21:07:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might have been sincere and rewarding you for losing the weight. If you feel there's more you can gently nudge it into a date, but I wouldn't take her compliments as anything more than nice.
2007-10-01 21:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dismiss any compliments as signs of flirting when you have lost weight. Its some sort of stigma that people feel the urge to compliment people who used to be overweight.
This puts into question what was the reason you lost weight. Did you do it for people compliments, or your own well being.
2007-10-01 21:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have said so because you finally cleaned that spaghetti sauce off your face and hairline that was stuck to you for the past month.
IF you want to test the waters properly, take her to a movie and get a bucket of popcorn. Pop a hole in the bottom and be creative. DONT ADD SALT to the popcorn!
2007-10-01 21:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by vote_usa_first 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definately not. now adays girls are much more cunning then you guys. at times we do something for a reasons. like for my case. i happen to fall for this guy whom always chill at this one place almost everynight with his friends. i started out this planned bcoz' he's acting as if he's nt interested in me while the others are trying real hard to woo me. so.. i started all that fake praises n cmpliments. n voices out all those things they wear n did. trying to show hw observant i am. i talked to almost all of them. my intensions is 1. n that is to get his attention. but sorry to say. the moment he's 'into' me. the next thing i knew i shouldn't be doing this anymore...
2007-10-01 21:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by KERSHERL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi!!!!!!
SEe being a girl
i would advice
not to get too close to her as it was your first meet.
keep meeting her if u also have something for her in you heart
after say 2-weeks try something
2007-10-01 21:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by maina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may really be into you or not... so take it slow... ask her out and find out.
Have fun in any case...and play the dating game.
Cheers
2007-10-01 21:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by Say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. She was just complimenting you.
2007-10-01 21:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by cathy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just being nice. She feels sorry for you and she was trying to make you feel better.
2007-10-01 21:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by smokey virginia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
test the waters, dude... just keep your confidence intact... know her better, befriend her... we can never tell if it will be more than friendship, but start now...
2007-10-01 21:11:19 · answer #9 · answered by irritated_oyster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you, you hust have to talk to her if you really wanna know.
2007-10-01 21:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Caiti B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋