we've been friends for some time already. some things he does include.. telling me stories and asking qns about me when we do talk.he smiles and mumbles alot when he talks to me. and when we walk together, he slows his pace. changed his bus route for mine once and made like he wanted my no but kept his phone.
he avoids physical contact and when other guys talk to me he stares alot. he texted me continuously for 4 days though he had an exam and always ended with a qn.
ok, he stared alot at me in class all year, he'd choose seats opposite me or somethin. when i used to catch him, he'd look away. now, he holds my gaze. we hardly talk in class..and i'm too embarrassed to say hi or look at him. however, i do text him if ever, out of the blue.. just to let him know im interested.
is that enough..? and lessons are ending soon, is it ok to ask him out? thanks =)
2007-10-01 21:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely he's interested. If he's shy then he's questioning himself and trying to scrape up his courage, no matter how many hints you've given. If you're aggressive enough to ask him out it would be a huge relief for him. He might freak out, though, and say no or just put you off out of confusion (this has been reported many times here), so be prepared for strange behavior and incoherence.
2007-10-01 21:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've said, it seems like he may be interested. If he's always looking into your eyes when you are talking then that's a sure sign he likes you. Guys don't always just come out and say they like you. In fact, most of the guys that have been interested in me and that i've dated took awhile to admit they had any type of feelings for me and even then it was more like dropping hints then actually saying it. Guys don't like to be rejected so just because he hasn't asked for your number already doesn't mean he doesn't want it. Maybe he's waiting for a signal from you showing him that you're interested before he makes any moves. When you do see him, try to get a conversation going rather than just saying hi. Even if it's just for a few seconds it's better than nothing. You can ask him what his plans are for holidays or the weekend or what he's doing when he gets off. It could be a great lead-in for making actual plans to hang out, even just casually. For example, New Years. You could ask if he knows of any parties or something. It's good to start out as friends and do things together so that you really get to know each other rather than jumping into dating right away. My current bf and i met at school and then started hanging out a lot and eventually it just grew into more by itself with hardly any effort. We've been together for a year and 2 months. Anyways, whatever happens good luck! :)
2016-05-18 23:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly an afternoon-evening date is in order. Make it somewhere that you will be able to have a private discussion, rather than something like a movie where you can not talk and get to know each other better.
2007-10-01 21:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is an aspie, YES. He is giving you signs. to an aspie patterns are everything! For him to give up a day of a pattern that is surprising and means that he really loves you. But if he isn't an aspie, well you are on your own there.
2007-10-01 22:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's one word babes.....
'''''COMMUNICATION'''''''
Theres no better way to do things than to talk en talk..
You sound so sweet and he a jiggggggg not to notice that.
Other than that ,there are a lot of guys who would be more appreciative and would love to be with you...
Other my advise will be forget the boy(he so childish like a boy)...
2007-10-01 21:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by lady"P" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there are people like him because i feel im sort of like him. i felt really stupid after it happened to me because the girl couldnt take it much longer and came up to me and told me to ask her to ask her out.. i really regret it and i hope you dont have to take charge just wait a few days and if he doesnt just move on or talk to more guys to make him jealous than it will make him to come out of his shell. good luck
2007-10-01 21:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?give it a go and see what happens besides he does seem to like you!
2007-10-01 21:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by m0rtak1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋