I hooked up with this girl 5 weeks ago twice, then i told her i couldnt because i still liked my ex. i ended up getting back with my ex, and she started a relationship with a guy in texas. bear in mind we live in california. my gf lives in connecticut, and im probably going to end it in a week if not 2. my question is, if this girl and i have remained friends, but friends who talk about the pitfalls of our relationships and stuff, how can i go about getting her to break up with her bf for me? any tips on how to sway her to coming for me? im about to make a cadet move and break up with my gf for this purpose so please give good advice here.
2007-10-01 21:18:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The whole situation is Peyton Place. You're sleeping with a girl who has a boyfriend and you have a distance relationship with another.
Train wreck!! I'd say start EVERYTHING over. There's no integrity here for anyone.
2007-10-01 21:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you end up totally alone let me advise you. You need to talk to your friend/soon to be girlfriend and tell her about your feelings for her. If she feels mutual, both of you break it off with your partners, if not then your not out in the cold...bad idea to break it off with your other girl FIRST then go and tell her...then what if she wont go with you then your empty handed and girls can survive that a whole lot better than guys can, sorry to knock you but its the truth. Good Luck.-Rachel.
2007-10-01 21:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldnt directly ask her to leave a good relationship, but if it is clear to you that she may have feelings for you, confront her about it and she might surprise you.
if you have no clue then try asking her hypathetically. good luck but dont muck up either of your lives by being too pushy!! - is this really what you want?
2007-10-01 21:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ariel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋