What should I do if my friend has a boyfriend? Should I make peace, go our seperate way or try to get back w?

Question

my friend and i have been hanging out for about a yr and 1/2. at first we were into each other, but because work got in the way on the weekends, we stopped speaking for 3-4 months. i finally regained the courage to talk to her on a constant basis and we became friends again. she was even my prom date. but because at times i was moody (hangover from prom) and we'd have little arguements about stupid stuff (it'd blow over after a day or so). then this summer, we both went on vacation, hers ending a week before mind. we i'd gotten back, she didn't call. i waited about a week then while frustrated, i called her and got angry. the following week i called her to apologize and i asked her why she didnt contact me in over a month. she finally confessed and sed she's had a boyfriend for 3 weeks. the next 2 weeks we continued back and forth arguing about whether or not what she did was wrong.i felt like she cud've at least told me, we'd talk all the time on the phone i'd tell her i was into her

Answer 1

You're jealous. Nothing wrong with that but you have to decide if you want to lose her over this.

Can you tolerate being friends without acting out because she is with someone else?

Maybe you two will get together eventually but for now you're stuck with being a friend or nothing at all.

If she's important to you I think you should try to keep her in your life.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Well considering the fact that she didn't tell you and you talk all the time then ya it was kinda wrong but it was her choice although it was a little mean of her. and if she has a boyfriend then get urself a girlfriend so it will give you something to do and it will help take ur mind off the fact and no dont go seperate ways, I think you should stay in contact and still hang out and call occasionally

Answer 3

You sound like a jealous boyfriend or someone interested whose love is unrequited.Unless this is the case, what does her new boyfriend have to do with anything--your friendship, arguments,your vacation, and the times you did not speak to each other.I admit that she should have told you about her new boyfriend because you guys have being hanging out now for about 18 months.However, the early period of a new romance is time that the couple generally tend to forget everyone else until the emotion eases.Unless, you want to be her boyfriend, I see no reason for you to end your friendship or go your separate ways, not after 18 months of being friends.

Answer 4

well thats really up to you. if you know she is not the type to call then thats is what you must accept as a condition of friendship. If you get mad then you know what to do. move on with your life. if you have a romantic intrest, you should have let her know.
if you established that she was your girlfriend and she accepted then she is wrong. just going out and fooling around is not a girlfriend. thats a f*ckbuddy.

Answer 5

Run, Run now while you still can! lol. Okay but seriously, just mark this as a lost cause and move on. Its only going to cause you drama and stress. Good luck.

Answer 6

only call her and ask for forgiveness for being so moody. enable her understand you have thoughts for her and have been afraid to tell her. it is her determination no remember if she desires to be with you or the guy she is with now. next time with a bit of luck you will no longer wait until the girl is with somebody else.

Answer 7

It all come down to is your friendship important enough to you to look past the fact that she has a boyfriend.