Singles & Dating - 3 October 2007

This kid is going to ask me to homecoming.
How do i say no without being bitter? I like him but just not as much as he likes me. And I dont want to hurt his feelings.

GUYS How would you like to be rejected?
Any lines?

2007-10-03 08:15:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every GIRL can answer, even if you don't have a boyfriend... think about what you would do. Bisexual and Lesbian girls, you can answer to, just replace the boy ajectives with a girl one!

2007-10-03 08:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by way2damnhot4u 1

every month i get that feeling that im falling for my bestmate. and everytime i kinda tell him he tells me to stop being silly or somthing similur. everytime this happends i end up getting really sad cos i know he probly dont feel the same about me, hes told me that i mean more then a friend to him but theres no point doing anything about it because the major thing is we live in a diffrent country to eachother. in my last relationship i moved to greece to be with my ex, i met my bestfriend from the internet. he means so much to me that i get really worred about losing him, this is why i feel the need to tell him how much he means to me. but i go to far and i know its pushing him away. i need some control here. someone please tell me how i am spose to control myself when we talk to eachother. oh and btw i have a boyfriend (been togeterr for a year), but iv fallen for my best friend for almost 2 or three years now. wheni split with my ex i should have made the move with my mate then!

2007-10-03 07:59:22 · 2 answers · asked by honiez_of_uk 2

I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. We began our "journey" as an agreed "friends with benefits". We see each other 1-2 times per week and IM or text on most days.

I really enjoy spending time with him and we really have alot in common. We make each other laugh, we have the same goals in life, and we are both dedicated to our careers. Most of the time we get together it is for the "benefits", however, there are times that we also go out to dinner, driving, that sort of thing.

I am starting to feel more than friends with him and I don't know how to tell him without scarring him off. I don't feel like I "love" him because he hasn't earned that emotion yet, but I do know that I like him alot and that I can see myself with him and don't want to see anyone else. Neither one of us is currently dating anyone else. He's never been married, but I am divorced with a 17 year old.

I hope this is enough information, but if you have questions, please ask!!

2007-10-03 07:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Julie H 1

Tell the truth.. after all no one on here is more perfect than the next.

2007-10-03 07:54:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy who is tall dark and handsome as well in between thin and average of weight. Who has dark brown hair and blue eyes. A guy who has a great personailty and has plenty of respect and cares a lot about the women. A guy who is always there for her no matter what. A guy who likes to hug kiss and cuddle with the girl instead of having sex with. A guy who dresses nice but not to impress the girl but to look sharp on dates. A guy who will love you no matter what.

Ok what would you rate a guy like that? 1-10 10 being the greatest.

And also a man who spends quaility time with the girl over sports.

2007-10-03 07:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 07:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We all know that guys love the cool toys.....sports cars, sport bikes, modified rice burners, etc. I would think that most of these guys think that their cool rides impress the ladies...

Ladies only...give me the low down......does a flashy car get your attention, detract your attention, or has no affect whatsoever? If not offended, please include age range to see if there is a difference in opinion based on age.

15 - 18
19 - 25
36 - 45
45 - above

2007-10-03 07:52:13 · 33 answers · asked by Jay E 3

i am dating a girl that every one says is a cheater and a whore and i dont wanna belive them cause i really like her... idk if i can trust her

2007-10-03 07:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by jimmy 2

theres a girl where i work, shes pretty cute. id quite like to get somewhere with her beyond the odd bit of chatting and getting her to do stuff for me (shes my unofficial assistant).

before i make a fool of myself, i want to know how open she is likely to be - shes quite smiley with me and will often do stuff for me when i ask. i dunno if shes just being generally nice or doing it for me as shes into me abit.

what would be a female perspective on this? shes 18 btw if that makes a difference.

any signs of her being into me would be cool, as this stuff goes over my head usually and i tend to get it wrong.

cheers!

2007-10-03 07:37:54 · 18 answers · asked by the dogone dog 2

I dumped a girl saturday before last. It was a hard decision to make, because I really care for her. She always told me she loved me, and I thought she meant it. But I don't think I was in love with her, which is why I ended it. I've never been so attached to a girl before, and we were together since January.

We're talking and (trying) to act like everythings cool between us. I have to see her every day, because we get the same train to school. She messaged me on bebo, and when I messaged her back I saw that she had been chatting to some new guy.... flirting. This was only a week after we broke up. Then on Monday morning she saw this guy (i dunno who he is) and walked away from me to him and kissed him. Then she got annoyed at me for being irritated... I mean c'mon... I thought our relationship would take more than a week to get over.

I don't think it would be a good idea for me to get back with her, cos we would probably have the same problems again. How can I make this easier?

2007-10-03 07:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by NONAME 3

i went out with this guy for only 2 and a half weeks and like a week later i didnt have the same feelings for him. SO today i wrote him a note, that was me breaking up with him and i gave it to him in the pickline at school right when i was about to leave. we driving away and i saw him reading it and he looked soooo sad, and i feel terrible. i dont want to get back together with him, but i didnt want to hurt his feelings. we used to be good friends, and now im afraid he wont want to be anymore. anyway is there any advice. even though im not sad that i broke up with him, it makes me sad to see him sad. i feel really terrible, and i need some breakup advice. thanks soooooo much.

2007-10-03 07:32:41 · 17 answers · asked by ♪ladida♪ 2

2007-10-03 07:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by mikey 3

I met this girl through my female cousin and they are best friends. We all had a party at my house and after my cousin passed out and the rest of the ppl left me and the girl was alone. We started making out and then it lead to other things but we stopped b4 sex. After that we all started hanging out alot, going out to eat, riding around, chillin, goin to the movies. We became good friends. She use to go out with my other guy cousin but they stopped dating recently. Over the last few months Ive realized i have fallin in love with her. Ive told her how i feel but she kinda blows it off. We tell each other we love each other but she does that with all of her friends. It seems like she trys to make me jealous with guys and she can tell i get mad. When I talk to a girl like about to date them she gets mad at me and tells me I shouldnt. What I want to know is how does she feel. Does she like me like me? Is she hiding it? What should I do??

2007-10-03 07:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont have any but it is just a opinion question i wanna know what yall think i think it is wrong

2007-10-03 07:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by jimmy 2

In the movie "Revenge of the Nerds" we see that in the end the nerds get the cheerleaders, but is that only fiction?

2007-10-03 07:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 07:25:22 · 33 answers · asked by ~% L0v3D_bUt_N0t_3N0uGh %~ 1

2007-10-03 07:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4

Hey everyone ii need yur help
well i have a boy friend but ii dont knoww if i should get off with him 4 the 1st time. and everyone is forsing me 2
BUT iim only 13 !! x But ii wanna get off with him but im scared
HEELPP MEE !!

2007-10-03 07:13:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months now.. we love each other with all our heart. Well he has been trying to get me to move in for about 2 months now… I Do want to and I want to be with him forever, get married and have children. I just don’t want us to breakup cuz I know it’s a lot different when you live with someone.. I don’t know if it is too soon to move in or should I go ahead and test the water out…He wants to get married also just don’t know when yet

. Just give me some good advice.. No dumb **** please, this is serious business……

2007-10-03 06:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf found out that I had cheated on him once five months earlier. He decided that he wanted to still be with me even though he was very hurt. I understand that with that comes all the questions of why and how and even the disbelief that what you are saying about your feelings toward him are true. I can't help but wonder how long this should be acceptable from him?

2007-10-03 06:02:33 · 1 answers · asked by BSweet 1

2007-10-03 05:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by pretty 1

Personality-wise and intellectually I coincidentally seem to get along best with women that are a few years older than me. While many of them state "where were you X number of years ago" none are willing to give a younger guy a chance even if they claim to really like conversing with him. Why is this?

2007-10-03 05:32:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

No vulgarity, please!

2007-10-03 05:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by tangerine 7

Hi,
I have a boyfriend since 8 months. Neither of us was virign when we met but neither of us has had any sexual relations with anyone since we met.
He cares for me and buys me gifts like jewels, chocolate, wine, etc. But he has never attempted to kiss me or even remotely suggest sex.
I am very keen to make love with him. I wonder if he is really interested in me. If I tell him directly to hit the sack, he might percieve me as a lose woman.
I am sure he is not a gay. He had a live in relationship a few years ago.
How do I ask him if he is not interested in sex with me or with anyone? Without making him feel insecure or making me look like a hooker?

2007-10-03 05:31:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my guy's 23 but he's having trouble getting hard/have an erection during foreplay why may this the case?
The first time i thought its okay, but we're tried to sleep together 2/3 times since then he still have trouble getting hard.
i dont think he has erectile dysfucntion cos hes so young
could it have anything to do w his inhibitions such as- not being secure abt our r/ship/feelings for me or still not completely over past gf etc etc
he said he loves me v much and is sexually very attracted to me but his body doesnt seem to be confirming what hes saying

2007-10-03 05:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by bluemoon_743 1

2007-10-03 05:24:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I decided to speak more positively about my choice of men, but the positive affect on my life hasn't happened yet. I have been with one jerk after another. I am bored- not just that, but wondering what it takes to find a nice guy. After all I have had an ****** detector on my forehead for too long- I want it off! It seems I meet a nice one- but then the truth comes out and "ANOTHER ONE" in my life- ugh! I just feel that i want a man in my life that partially has it together- at the very least. A man that knows the SECRET of a woman- that we love to be adored- not watch men adore themselves- hahaha. From a woman who is tired of seeing men look at themselves more.

2007-10-03 05:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been so used to everyone being mad and me being the happy one (or at least seeming to be) that now that everyone is very happy again, i feel way low and sad. and i want to be cheerful but it's all rushing to me and i keep suspecting that everyone is secretly mad or upset. what the heeckk?

2007-10-03 05:12:22 · 3 answers · asked by mandy 2

how come the medias stopped talking about it, ive barely heard a word about it on the news?

2007-10-03 05:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by The World At War 1