Singles & Dating - 3 October 2007

I really like a guy and he really likes me. We aren't in a relationship yet...he is 14 and i am 17...i'm worried what other people would think about our age difference...that's why if we do become bf and gf i would want it to be a secret...is this wrong?

2007-10-03 15:02:02 · 26 answers · asked by Jane 2

My friend is really sad. He's the only guy she could ever cry over and he's being an *** to her. I want to go out with her a little but I am looking for some advice or words of wisdom I could give her to make her feel better? Thanks in advance!

2007-10-03 14:59:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, so I met this guy the other day at the community college where I take dual-credit courses. I'm 17 and he's 20. He just like, randomly came up and started talking to me. He's asked me out three times in the last three days, which makes me a little wary. He seems like a nice enough guy though, intelligent and everything. But I don't frequently get hit on by older guys, so I don't know what to make of this. He doesn't make me feel uncomfortable or anything, but I'm a minor and he's not. So, what are this guy's intentions? I'm just kind of confused by it....

2007-10-03 14:47:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so ive been going out with tyler for a week now, and we haven't held hands or kissed or anything. i've kinda wanted to make a move somehow, just because he hasn't yet. is there a way to get him to kiss me or hold hands or something, without it being too obvious? thanks so much!

2007-10-03 14:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So basically my girl likes it to hurt when were having sex, any suggestions to fulfill her wishes

2007-10-03 14:30:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, thats what I like were do I look in order to find one?? By the way do a lot of men still want this in a woman?? It seems that all of them are taken...

2007-10-03 14:30:18 · 3 answers · asked by Max P 1

wat do you do with it? do u keep it? throw it away?seriously:)

2007-10-03 14:28:02 · 2 answers · asked by keisha1 1

OK is it just me or do you think that its right for your boyfriend to hang out with your best friend alone?? Am I being selfish not wanting him to be alone with her???? When we are together all he does is talk about her and what they do at the group they are both members of and I asked him to stop and still still hasn't and he said he wouldn't bring it up anymore but he has. We were fine till tonight when he asked me if it was ok if he could hang out with her... Am i being selfish??? Should I let them go and keep the way I am feeling out of it and let them be friends......The reason it hurts so much is because at one point they both wanted to be more then friends but didnt tell each other...plus they hit n each other a lot...... So any advice please help I have been going out with him for 6 monthes and I don't know what to do????

2007-10-03 14:26:08 · 1 answers · asked by LostGal19 3

Okay, so Im at my schools homecoming dance and one of my friends tells me a girl that is in my class likes me. This came as a shock cause I barely knew who she was. Okay and she likes me but I dont know if I like her back. Shes a cool friend whos always happy when I talk to her and smiles. I guess I kinda like it cause I usually don't have this happen with a girl liking me and telling me. But shes not really the type of girl I like. I don't want to tell her because I don't want her to get really sad. I don't even know for sure. What do I do?

2007-10-03 14:16:37 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

i know i asked this earlier but i want more answers

i sit next to her all the time in class and flirt with her. she always laughs at my jokes and we always have a good time........i really want to ask her put but I'm just afraid she isn't ready for a boyfriends or doesn't want me as one......so

1. does she like me?
2. should i ask her out

2007-10-03 14:11:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy I work with that I am attracted to. He's forty-two and I'm eighteen. It's bad, I know it is, but it's not something I can help. He's really young at heart, and he looks like he could be in his early thirties. Still too old I know. I have a lot of will power when it comes to liking someone, but this is different. I guess it's because I'm feeling sexually frustrated. I haven't had any sexual intimacy in a while and there's not to much to choose from right now in my life. But it's not like a last option sort-of thing, I really do like him, if he were only twenty years younger there'd be no question, but he's not. I just want to have a little fun, make-out with him maybe, that's all. Is it worth it? I work with him and I don't want to jeopardize my reputation within the company, which I haven't even thought about until now. :/ I don't know... What do you think I should do?

2007-10-03 14:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by Cara 2

WE HAVE SOME ISSUES IN OUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT I REALLY AM WORKING TO MAKE US WORK, BUT I JUST FEEL LIKE HE ISN'T PUTTING ANY EFFORT INTO IT..NEITHER ONE OF IS PERFECT, AND WE BOTH GOT SOME **** WITH US..BUT I TRY CAUSE I LOVE HIM, AND HE SAYS HE LOVES ME TOO..I THINK HE DOES BUT SOMETIMES HE HAS A WEIRD WAY OF SHOWING IT..OH YEAH WE'RE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP, TALK ABOUT HARD. I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY! I'M SUPPOSE TO GO VISIT HIM THIS WEEKEND BUT I'M SCARED WE'RE GOING TO GET INTO A FIGHT ABOUT SOMETHING PETTY WHEN ALL I WANT TO DO IS ENJOY BEING WITH HIM, SEEING HIM AND TOUCHING HIM. WHAT I DO TO HELP HIM HAVE MORE FAITH IN US AND BELIEVE THAT I CAN CHANGE.. I'VE DONE SOME CRAZY THINGS IN PAST REALTIONSHIPS , BUT I REALLY STRIVE TO BE A BETTER PERSON FOR ME FOR HIM FOR US...I JUST DON'T THINK THAT HE SEES IT.WHEN DO I QUIT TRYING TO PROVE MYSELF TO HIM?

2007-10-03 14:10:28 · 1 answers · asked by Extremely Elated 1

basically, anything with a good beat for that kinda thing

2007-10-03 14:06:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I let him know I want him to kiss me. We have been going out for over two weeks and I want him to kiss me so badly.

2007-10-03 13:57:08 · 34 answers · asked by laybackandcool 1

I feel very strange asking this question, because I've never had much dating trouble before... but now I do.

There's this guy that I think is really... well, attractive, and I've heard good things about him. But... I don't know him. I want to be able to talk to him and get to know him, but the way that he looks at me is really intimidating. I can't tell why he looks at me that way. I'm actually pretty shy, and I really want to be able to talk to him, even as just a friend. How can I talk to him without him thinking I'm an idiot?

2007-10-03 13:56:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 13:50:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 13:50:00 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Doll Face♥ 3

Ok, So he's 19 and I'm 15. Yes, big age difference. But anyways... hes a senior and I am a sophmore. Hes been sweet talking to me lately and today he told me he liked me. I barely know the guy, I can't have a convo with him because I'm so shy. When it comes to face its not the same over texting. He calls me baby, sweetie and etc... I have no idea if he's playing me or what? How can I know if he is or not?

2007-10-03 13:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy that likes me says that he thinks im beautiful and so does many other people. However, when I go out with certain types of guys I go for those that may not be consider handsome. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

2007-10-03 13:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-03 13:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this guy that i really still like but i just dont feel the sparks any more. i dont want to hurt him because he is still really in love with me. should i break up with him or give it more time and see how it goes? and how should i go about it?

2007-10-03 13:39:03 · 12 answers · asked by Dogears 1

I've known someone for over a year and became good friends with online. We're both over 20 and have spoken to a couple of times on the phone.
We once planned to meet up but didn't as it was too difficult to do so, mainly on his behalf. We're from different countries. Is it normal to like him or should I forget him as the chances of ever meeting are very slim? I'm not sure if he feels the same way.

2007-10-03 13:38:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

yes i just put up 1 about him, he just called me and started yelling at me 4 no reason (sigh) i have no idea wut he was saying alls i herd was my beat friends name (yes he is a guy) and cheatting. he has been so wierd lately, mably i should listen 2 Nick A and dump him 4 a jock

2007-10-03 13:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

15 yearold me and my 28 yearold girlfriend are in love. The age may be high, but we honestly do love eachother. I'm curious to some good ways of spending time together without getting her in trouble.

2007-10-03 13:27:11 · 2 answers · asked by Leon 1

2007-10-03 13:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by the crazy one!!!!!!! 1

I feel guilty when I watch porn or when I masturbate, so I desperately want to stop, but I can't stop myself. When I'm alone, the temptation gets the better of me and despite my best efforts I can't stop. I need some advice on how to stop.

Please don't suggest telling someone (for accountability) b/c I find my habit despicable and don't want others (especially someone I know well) to know.

2007-10-03 13:24:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 7 months. Everything was perfect, up until about 3 months ago. We started fighting and arguing a lot, and I even ended up giving up some of my best friends for him. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so trapped, but I love him too much to get out of the relationship. Any advice on what to do? :(

2007-10-03 13:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by Margarita J 1

Ok well my boyfriend is totally sweet. He's completely amazing and way awesome. But I have a problem. He can't kiss. And I mean if God was a girl and you had to make out with her to get into heaven he would sooo go to hell.

Yeah, that bad. So what the heck should I do? I don't want to like say anything so should I just deal with it?

2007-10-03 13:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so theres this guy and i have know him for about a year and we have talked and hang out and a couple of months ago he told me he loved me and everything so i trusted him because i really like him but then i got a text from his ex about a week after we kinda hooked up and she told me that they were back together and that she didn't want me to talk to him anymore so i let it go and didn't talk to him even though it killed me not to and then last week me and him started talking again and i confronted him and he told me he had no clue what i was talking about and told me that he loved me and i grow weak and gave in and i really want to be with him but i do i know if hes going to hurt me again and if he really loves me, so my question is what are some of the sign that he can give me to prove that he loves me and wants to be with me or if hes just playing with me head????????

2007-10-03 13:07:53 · 2 answers · asked by nikki 2

2007-10-03 13:03:20 · 15 answers · asked by Savanna 6