so ive been going out with tyler for a week now, and we haven't held hands or kissed or anything. i've kinda wanted to make a move somehow, just because he hasn't yet. is there a way to get him to kiss me or hold hands or something, without it being too obvious? thanks so much!
2007-10-03 14:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, im 15 and hes 16 if that helps any :]
2007-10-03 14:42:32 · update #1
i will tell u that ive been going with my bf for 2.5 years, and it took us two years to kiss and all that. don't rush it. it will b a lot easier if you let it come naturally. also, u will feel like it was mutual attraction that brought the special moment. if u rush things, he may feel like the physical part is all u want. if it is, than i would say, whatever, its a fling, go for it, but otherwise, take ur time. let him come to u. a week is a week. he's still getting used to you being his gf.
2007-10-03 14:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by horse_fli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well with not knowing how old you are its kinda hard to tell if hes just ignoring you or just really shy, but then again he could be shy no matter what age, all i know is when i hadnt held hands before with a girl, in my entire life its kinda scary to step up and just grab the girls hand. And expesialy if you havent kissed before, thats about the largest step to take in a relationship, but if you start kissing dont take it to far, trust me its a big mistake.
2007-10-03 21:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical intimacy or expressions are normal in any romance so I can understand your desire for that in your own relationship.However, you have just started a new romance--one week--so be patient.For now, just enjoy the newness of your friendship, each other, discovering all you have in common, and building your romance. Before you even know it ,all the other physical stuff will occur but in a manner that will increase its significance and pleasure. Just relax and be patient.
2007-10-03 22:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show him some signals that you like being with him, and whenever possible, try to hold his hands in a nice subtle way, this could start a little intimacy for both of you, goodluck!
2007-10-03 22:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by confused lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're walking with him, just slip your hand into his. A lot of guys appreciate a girl making the first move - could just be that he's shy. :)
2007-10-03 21:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by peroxidekween 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him while you and him are in a romantic place and he is talking gab his hand and say hey you talk alot and get very close almost touching lips and if he wants to kiss you he will
2007-10-03 21:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by sugarmebrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him
2007-10-03 21:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋