Ok, So he's 19 and I'm 15. Yes, big age difference. But anyways... hes a senior and I am a sophmore. Hes been sweet talking to me lately and today he told me he liked me. I barely know the guy, I can't have a convo with him because I'm so shy. When it comes to face its not the same over texting. He calls me baby, sweetie and etc... I have no idea if he's playing me or what? How can I know if he is or not?
2007-10-03 13:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did ask, he said no.
2007-10-03 13:57:51 · update #1
HE JUST ASKED IF I COULD SEND HIM A PIC OF ME! He said he wanted to see me.
2007-10-03 13:59:52 · update #2
I would be careful if I were you. Guys that show interest in younger girls can sometimes just be looking for one thing. If you barely know him take the time to get to know him before you move to the next step in having a relationship with him.
2007-10-03 13:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut.
If you barely know him and barely had any conversations with him, then he doesn't know you either. He is attracted to you, which is different than liking, because liking implies he's gotten to know you as a person with a brain and a heart not just a body to play with.
Yes, he's flirting with you and hoping his age will impress you enough for him to get more familiar. I suggest that you take things ultra slow with him and remain firm on getting to know each other as people first, friends second. Take things one step at a time. NO one says that just because someone calls you sweetie or honey that you should automatically give him the time of day.
If he wants to get to know you, he's to address you by your real name and find out about what interests you as a person.
I honestly never liked being called honeysugarbabysweetie, because if someone's playing with more than one person, they don't have to memorize a name if they are calling every girl they're with by some non-name. They can just call them all sweetiehoneybabysweetie and none would be the wiser.
2007-10-03 20:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him with a group of friends. Know him more, but don't date him yet, find out more about him before accepting to see each other in a more formal or private way.
2007-10-03 20:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur being played, besides that age difference is too big at this age, hes playing you because rarley do guys actually go for girls that much younger cuz they like their personality, and i see guys i know say babe and sweety to more then one girl in a day, its nothign special
2007-10-03 20:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. He's taking advantage of the fact you are younger so I wouldn't trust him. No self-respecting 19 year old man would date a 15 year old unless he's immature/insecure.
2007-10-03 20:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to know give him a chance..but dont give it up for a long time... a guy will only stick around for so long and when u stop puttin out he stops comin...u need to test ur strengths let him dine you and treat u like a princess but no matter what he says do not give him nothing...
2007-10-03 20:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if hes playing you but if he likes you thats crazy because of the age difference.My advice is to stay away from him.
2007-10-03 20:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Diana M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats preety hard but i hope your relationship goes well and i dont think that he is playing you im mean he takes time to think about you...well bye :)
2007-10-03 20:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by kolan333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
well have sex with him and get him drunk then ask him and see wut he ill say ok first send me a pics of u and i will let u know from that on
2007-10-03 20:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ASK HIM & SEE WHAT KIND OF RESPONSE YOU GET.
2007-10-03 20:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by smart agent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋