theres this guy at my school who isnt in my grade, we aint in any of the same classes or anything, im interested in him. i dont know how i found him lol. how can i get him to notice me without me going and talking to him lol, thats just riduculos :) im shy. got any tecniques girls??? and boys.. lol haha like accidently walking into him??? :) hehe
2007-10-03 23:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you could gently bump into him, make eye contact, (don't apologize) then walk on away from him. It's okay to look back over your shoulder at him as you walk away. Remember, guys are more guarded in their approach and you may not get much of a reaction from him at first. The next day, let him notice you starring at him, then look away. Look back at him, make eye contact again and look away. Continue to send out daily "smoke-signals" until he comes over to make "small talk." Just don't say or do anything to repel him, or put him on the spot. It's always better to let him take the lead in where ever the encounter goes. Let nature take it's course and let the relationship grow and build on it's own. Never underestimate the power of a slow tease!
2007-10-04 00:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should a guy completely fall for a girl he never talks to? You've got to go & talk to him. Maybe it's a little scary to go up & talk to someone randomly, but if you are not willing to do that, then you aren't really into him to begin with. What would you rather have: a brief moment of embarassment if he blows you off (and then not have to see him afterwards) or to just keep watching & regret not taking action?
If you want a subject to talk to him about, go ask him if you can borrow a pen or pencil so you can write down "something important". Make something up, like a homework assignment. While you're doing that, say something like "Isn't homework lame?" or "Hey, I see that you like ______. That's pretty cool." If he blows you off, just ask another person for a pen or pencil & play it off like you went up to him just for that pencil.
"Accidentally" bumping into him works as well. If he's a member of any clubs, maybe you can go & check out those clubs? That's a great chance to get to know him as well.
2007-10-04 00:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know any of his contact details.. if so approach through them.. if not if you see him, give some eye contacts..
2007-10-04 00:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him and grab his nuts... any dude would like that.. he'll notice then ;p
2007-10-04 00:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋