I had proposed a girl 2months back......she said no to me.
Initially dint speak to me and avoided me.......but now she speaks to me as friend......we are colleagues in the same company..
She told me tht she never thought abt me in such a way, and only saw me as a friend..
Initially she told me tht she had a boyfriend.....I knw its a big lie.
If not tht guy would hve spoken to me by now right...??
Will a girl ever change her decision after saying NO for the first time.....She is very good looking....
But no idea what she expects from her life partner...
What do girls like......being emotional or being tough....
Should i stop speaking to her....??
She has not understood how much i love her....
2007-10-03 22:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by Kiran 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CONTINUE AS FRIEND.......
2007-10-09 03:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She said no to you coz she didnt have any feelings for you. Whether she will have or not in the future is in the way you impress her. If she really sees you as a good friend, she will never accept.
You may not know if she really have a boyfriend or not. She maysay that to remove that feelings in you. Or she may be attached but she may belong to the low profile type of girl who doesnt discuss abt her personal life. It is not the right perception to say that her boyfriend may have spoken to you by now if she had one. Her boyfriend could have been a gentleman who doesnt confront you or he may be trusting her that he doesnt need to approach you at all.
You may carry on with her as a good friend. You cant say she didnt understand your love. There may be other guys who may be loving her more than you. In this case, whose love must she understand.
2007-10-04 10:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm, you have to understand something. Relationships happen in very small and very percice steps. you must follow those steps or you're out of the game. did you ever take her out on a date? did you ever take her out dancing? have you ever kissed her or even held her hand? you can't just ask a person to marry you, it doesn't work that way ----- I have a feeling you obsessed about her for so long that inside your mind you had already been together for 100 hundred years, had children, grandchildren ----- this is very common in stalkers, not saying you are one -- I just understand that point -- it's never too late but you better pretend you like someone else and get her advice on it -- make her jealous, it's your only hope ------- but you're most likely out of the race because you skipped all the steps the 1st time ---- if it was me, I'd be able to fix it ------ I could help but it'd cost you way more than you can handle ------ so in other words, get over it ----- move on
2007-10-04 06:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by BIG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't comeback. Almost all the girls are the same kind. If she is not interested in you, forget it dude. Leave and move on. If you keep running after her, you would be taken for granted. Love need to be 2 way, not just one way.
2007-10-05 12:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why pine for such a relationship? Get over and get going. Its a big world and you may come across someone who knows your worth right away.
2007-10-06 07:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Celeste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is based on my sister's. If a girl say no, she mean it but there's slightly chances she will eventually changed her mind. I think its not worth for a wait, move on bud. If you really want to impress her, indulged into her hobbies. Share interests with her. That should make her think more about you.
2007-10-04 05:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by skater_y3a90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stop talking to her be her good friend, whatever relationship she wants you to keep with her keep that if your so sure that she dont have a bf than wait for sometime give some time to know u personally,show what good qualities u have but dont show off,find out what she likes and what not, always be helpful to her,first name of love is friendship so take forst step of love and than step for the next one.
ALL THE BEST
let me know about it if it works.
2007-10-04 05:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by S S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hemm..i think she accepts u as a friend, even though she doesn't have a boyfriend she wanted to brush u off in a polite way, so it is life, i understand that u still love her, but do not waste ur time & life with empty dreams!
2007-10-04 06:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by miraclelight777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel when she said no means no. only in movie u see girl saying say yes in end, but in reality, their no is no. & she has hinted u by calling u a friend, still u hope then it is yr mistake.
2007-10-04 05:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel the same way, you have to let her go.
2007-10-04 05:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by boonana84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be a good friend.try to tell her truth.try to make some feelings.and at dead end try to avoid her..............she will definetly come Back........
2007-10-04 11:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋