alright so theres this girl I knida like and I never see her outside of our club that we are in?

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alright so theres this girl I knida like and I never see her outside of our club that we are in I only seen her once outside the our club, our club meet every 2 weeks, i dont see her so I cant really talk to her and I really havent talked with her alot, just a little. but I want a date with her, to see if i really like her. How would I tell her, should I just say the next time I see her,"what are you doing this weekend" or talk with her a little more than ask., How should I do this

Answer 1

Don't do the stupid, "what are you doing this weekend?" I have hated being asked that trapping kind of question since I was asked what I was doing on a day in February back in November by a girl who wanted me to go to the Sadie Hawkins dance almost 50 years ago.
Don't ask her out on a date, ask her to do something related to the club that she should be interested in. Along the lines of "there is this show at Center about green fish and I would like to go see it with you this weekend if you are interested." In other words, you are telling her what is involved and indicating your interest in her while setting up a situation where you have something to talk about and you are not trapping her into revealing her private plans in advance. This is especially nice if it turns out she would be willing to drop almost any plans (except her sister's wedding) because she has already noticed you!

Answer 2

have a casual conversation with her, at the end before u are about to leave, ask her out. make sure that the conversation u had before asking her out was a nice one, with a good topic. best of luck.

Answer 3

get her #