Singles & Dating - 7 October 2007

what everyone else says about us? (Which is what made him so upset in the first place. ) Please help me to resolve this situation while in a marching band setting?

2007-10-07 15:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I fell totally in love with this guy, and we started dating. Problem was? He lived two hours away. We were dating for two months, and got to see each other a couple times, and we were both in love, but then he said he couldn't do it anymore. He was going to be moving down close to me in a couple months, but he said he couldn't do it anymore, the whole "not seeing me" thing. So he broke up with me. And now, I really love him still, and I want him back, and he acts like he still loves me, but he doesn't say it outright. What do I do? PLEASE help me.

2007-10-07 15:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha 2

i have never dated or been kiss, and some guys i will never like have asked me out.

i am 5'2, med. brown hair, thin,kind light brown eyes, great style.
i am witty, no the smartest person out there, i have many close friends, loviable i guess,wierd? confeident, trust worthy, i love music. i make good friends with alot of guys.
what is my problem, i'm tierd of feeling so alone, what should i do? what CAN i do?

2007-10-07 15:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke up with me about 2 months ago. Said we faught too much and I was too jealous. (He was just as jealous)Anyways, we didn't talk to each other at all for about 2 weeks. Then he started calling to see how I was. He told me he wanted to be friends. I didn't want to lose him completely so I said yes. But everytime we talk he just tell me that the guy I'm talkng to is no good for me. Then I can't help but want to know info about his new girl. THen one night I called hime and told him I wanted to hook up. I know it was stupid but I thought it would be the last time for him to come back to me. I was soo sad afterwords..I know I had it coming. After that I told him I couldnt be friends with him anymore. Cuz it was too hard for me. Plus he would give me some mixed signals all the time. He would call me and want me to go over..saying he didnt want to do anything sexual, he just wanted me to stay over..and sounded like he was crying. And he would say he still loves me.I would ask him if he felt sad like that why couldnt we be together, and his reply is always cuz he needs to 'realize' things, and see where his heart takes him. I guess Either with this new girl or me. Sorry for rambling. My question i guess is, is how long did it take you to FINALLY get over your ex? I was with him for over a year...so I guess those of u that were together for over a year and got dumped??

2007-10-07 15:34:40 · 18 answers · asked by mimi 1

getting married and having kids with your girlfriend?

or are you the kind of guy that doesn't think like that and only imagines her without her clothes?

2007-10-07 15:33:22 · 5 answers · asked by Sandy O 3

So I im falling for my organic chem professor. Im 19 and hes 35. I think he is so hot and hes really smart. Everytime I see him i get all nervous and my heartbeat gets faster. I was at his office today and we were just both flirting all day. When he was talking to me he would hold my hand and just looks into my eyes. You dont find that too much anymore. Anyways, I cant stop thinking about him. Im about to join his research team. Does it matter if hes older than me? Should I go for it? I really really like this guy alot.
Additional Details:
Since the first day of class I noticed he made ALOT of eye contact with me. After the first time I went to his office he asks me If i will be visiting him after the class sessions.. AND NO hes not married or seeing anyone.

2007-10-07 15:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by lost_in_afantasy 2

Am I wrong to like....?
I have my girlfriend, give it that she is huge, but my question is, I can't seem to stop having random sex with other females. Included street girls, hookers, red light houses, internet, myspace, chat, and phone sex...I can't get enough. Is this why my girlfriend is 300 lbs, or am I just being me? Everyone always talks about how they just need to be themselfs, and how society should respect them for the way they are. I.E. Gays, Goths, Motorheads, geeks, druggies, hippies, bi-sex, tri-sex, qaud-sex. People who enjoy animals, and that strange society in America that thinks children should be able to consent to sex...So before you answer to harsh to my question, think about these people first................Thanks.

2007-10-07 15:21:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so, i've liked this guy for about a month. i haven't liked anyone in a pretty long time so it was kind of a shock to me. anyway, i was really falling hard and we've gotten really close and flirtatious, but all of a sudden he's been driving me crazy! like, he's way too sensitive, and he can get kind of clingy and annoying, and all of the reasons why i liked him in the first place just don't seem important anymore. is this just a poor match for me or am i just getting too blind by the negatives?

2007-10-07 15:21:05 · 15 answers · asked by Mary 3

so im dating this guy...and he cheated on me so i broke up with him but he said he was sorry and that he would never do it again and so on...you know well i forgave him and got back together with him and im just worried hes gonna do it again is it true once a cheater always a cheater...or should i quit worrying and believe that he has changed and wont cheat on me again???please help me i just need some opinions on what you would do!!!

2007-10-07 15:17:23 · 16 answers · asked by sexygurl_kayla! 1

IM IN LOVE WITH A PERSON BUT MY FAMILY DONT WANT ME WITH HIM AND HIS UNCLE HATES SEEN ME WITH HIM OR NEAR HIM

2007-10-07 15:15:46 · 2 answers · asked by Melisa M 1

everytime i see this guy who is they guy of my dreams my hears skips a few beats...i don't know how to tell him or how to act...when we chill it always ends up in very phsyical contact, etc...and it's amazing....everytime some1 says his name my heart beats faster...how do i act aroud him,,,,should i tell him and wat do i do

2007-10-07 15:15:39 · 1 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2

I have been married for 8 years I have been with him for 12 yrs off and on he has been on drugs off and on during our relationship and in and out of prison. While he was in prison I started a relationship with another man. I left that man to be back with my husband because of the children. MY husband has two jobs now but he drinks a lot a no longer wants to be with him I love the man i had a relationship with. I saw yesterday for the first time in 3 months we look at each other ran to each other and give each other a loving embrace. how do i tell my husband i do not want to be with him anymore?

2007-10-07 15:15:26 · 2 answers · asked by Regina C 3

i hate my stretch marks im 15 i know its because im really curvy an i have em on my hips an legs its not just like little ones theres tons of em i think im pretty but when ever i see them i feel so ugly an im so self concious about it i just wanna know if guys really think theyre ugly i was thinkin they might an yea i just wanna know

2007-10-07 15:15:05 · 40 answers · asked by odd 1

I'm 27 years old and I'm proudly saving myself for marriage. I'm dating a really nice guy who loves me and we have been dating for quite some time now. When we first starting dating I made it clear that I was saving myself and he said he understood but lately he keeps trying to get me to sleep with him and keeps telling me I don't really love him since I won't sleep with him. Everytime I turn him down he says that but it's not true I love him but I want to wait and now it seems like he doesn't understand that. What should I do? How do I deal with this?

2007-10-07 15:11:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I first met this guy and thought wow he is such a dork... i have totally new thoughts after talking to him a few times on the phone and in passing! It normally takes a heck of a lot of personality for me to like someone if they are not physically attractive, and this guy is not ugly, but hes not gorgeous... help!!

2007-10-07 15:08:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex gf and i had a good relationship, and she always said i was perfect for her and to her. I always treated her like a princess and just all around was a great bf to her..she even said so. We got close with eachother's families as well and were with eachother alot. We had such a great time together and enjoyed eachother's company very much. Well when it came time for school again we both knew she was going back to the same university about 2 hours away, but agreed to make the relationship work. So 2 weeks go by and classes start and for her school looked like it was gonna be tough. We had agreed to see eachother on weekends that were most convenient for both of us. Everything was going well for those 2 weeks and then she breaks up with me all of a sudden because she felt that I wasn't "the one". However she told me all that stuff about being perfect for her and to her. We both knew that school had alot to do with her getting overwhelmed with everything like me, school, friends,

2007-10-07 14:46:36 · 18 answers · asked by FutureFederer 2

i want a foawhawk( sorry i dont know how to spell it tell me how to spell it if you know0 and i recently got my hair cut and i dont like it anymor. but since i jsut got it cut my parents wont let me get it cut. can a cut it oon my own or have my friend cut it and how?

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2007-10-07 14:43:15 · 1 answers · asked by xxem1234xx 2

Or if you don't see each other do you still cheat but still love him/her?
Do you think that you love the person after you have cheated?

2007-10-07 14:36:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here- I've liked this guy for four months now. Unfortunately, he moved to a different school awhile ago, so now we don't see each other very often. But we're really close friends. Super close. I haven't felt like this ever since my last boyfriend, Jason. I feel alive with him there. Hes not sure who he likes; me or this other girl. I want him to like me, selfish I know. However, my friends keep telling me to "watch myself". I am. I feel so happy around him. But as said before, we're pretty much best friends. What should I do??

I hope this made any sense at all.

2007-10-07 14:35:27 · 1 answers · asked by Rock-Em 1

how can i get him back?

2007-10-07 14:34:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I was with him for a year
and he cheated
and lied a ton
and then he said that he really loved me blablabla
but then i turned him down and he went with this really desperate girl
and now hes emailing me on facebook trying to make me feel all bad that i wont go back with him
so what do you think i should say to him? any disses?
please help haha im so sick of him!

2007-10-07 14:32:50 · 2 answers · asked by chloe 1

I used to go out with a girl named Cherry. She was very beautiful and sexy. But there was something about her that made me nervous. I didn't know what it was, but I couldn't stop thinking about her. She made dinner for me a couple of times at her apartment, which was lovely, and she drove a nice, newish Honda. Her eyes sparkled as she talked or listened to me. I was enamored, but... she made me nervous.
One day, after we had been going out for a few weeks, she asked me to move in with her.
I said "no thank you, and I think we shouldn't see each other anymore"
I don't know where these words came from, because she was like a playboy centerfold and really seemed to like me alot. To this day, I don't know why I said that. But, we never went out again.
About a month after breaking it off with her, I learned that she had a guy move in with her. She stabbed him to death in bed with a bread knife. This is a true story.
So, either I should listen to my instincts or not date fruits.

2007-10-07 14:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well there is this guy......and i have liked him for quite awhile........and everytime i hear a sad song, i think about him.......and it really kills me. i know most people would say just go ask him out......but i cant because he has a girlfriend........and i know that they have been going out for 2 years......and this girl is one of my best friends. but i really really like this guy.......what should i do??? please give me an answer that you would do too. ( sorry this was kind of long.)

2007-10-07 14:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by brunettebeauty 2

I Talked to some of my boyfriends friends and I asked them What Do You Like In A Girl? They said she has to have BIG BOOBS. And mine are big for my height. So my shirt was sort of low cut.Because I thought that it was only my boy friend and me. So all they did was stair at my chest. Some of the other guys said that it was all about the looks.But I disagree I say that it is a persons personality.I asked my boy friend and he said that he was looking right at her(thats me!). He said I was the total package.That was the best answer of the night!But I want to know what guy really think! So Guys What Do You Like In A Girl?

2007-10-07 14:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by Bugaboo 2

Hi all,

I've been dating this amazing guy for 6 months now - everything is wonderful - he's kind, funny, sweet, sensitive and handsome and lately I feel myself falling for him.

He is so wonderful to me and I feel a real connection between us. As great as it is, sometimes I get the feeling he isn't going to tell me how he feels - he was cheated on twice by his ex wife.

I don't want to tell him how I feel just yet as I don't want to ruin things if he isn't in the same place.

We talk everyday, he plans trips for us to go away, cooks when I'm over, makes sure I'm okay, always hugging me and telling me how beautiful I am...he's just so lovely...

It was getting quite frustrating being together and having the most amazing time and still feeling like I wasn't sure did he like me as much so I began, recently, to not be as available and a little more vague about my day to day..be the first to say goodbye when we talk. Not in a cruel way at all - just to see how he reacted.

2007-10-07 14:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by Katie L 1

The other day, we got in a real stupid fight. He told me he doesnt love me anymore. I do not beileve its true. We had some problems.. I didn't give him the space he needed the past year.... and I ****** up. How can i get him back. He is the most important thing in the world to me and I love him so much. Help!!! Ten points to the best answer..that works!

2007-10-07 14:14:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

im always doing little sweet things for my boyfriend but i would like other peoples opinion on what they would do cause i always want him to know i love him !

2007-10-07 14:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by *BRITTANY* 1

Guys, if you were with your girlfriend for over a year and a half, and you wanted to get her something, would you ever consider a ring? I am not talking about an engagement or promise ring, just something that she can always have with her to remind her of you when you're away. And not expensive, just a simple cheap ring that has meaning.

I'm not a big jewelry person, and I really don't like necklaces or bracelets.I always wear one simple ring, simple and cheap. I would love if my boyfriend got one for me that I could always wear to remind me of how much I love him and he me. I have no thoughts of getting engaged or what not yet, that's not what I want. But if my boyfriend asked me what I wanted for Christmas or something, would it be weird to ask him for that? Or might he think I want it for something more?

Thanks guys.

I'm 21 by the way

2007-10-07 14:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by hopes&dreams 4

I don't know why guys don't like me i may be a nerd but even the nerds find somebody i haven't found anybody and i don't know whether it's my social problems or my looks. please help me somebody?

2007-10-07 14:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely cat woman ^_^ 1

what would you personally prefer?
a large boned tall curvaceous girl
a large boned tall skinny girl
a large boned short curvaceuos girl
a large boned short skinny girl

a medium boned tall curvaceous girl
a medium boned tall skinny girl
a medium boned short curvaceous
a medium boned short skinny girl

a small boned tall curvacous girl
a small boned tall skinny girl
a small boned short curvacous girl
a small boned tall skinny girl

and describe the girl you picked a little....

2007-10-07 14:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Ruby 4