Guys, if you were with your girlfriend for over a year and a half, and you wanted to get her something, would you ever consider a ring? I am not talking about an engagement or promise ring, just something that she can always have with her to remind her of you when you're away. And not expensive, just a simple cheap ring that has meaning.
I'm not a big jewelry person, and I really don't like necklaces or bracelets.I always wear one simple ring, simple and cheap. I would love if my boyfriend got one for me that I could always wear to remind me of how much I love him and he me. I have no thoughts of getting engaged or what not yet, that's not what I want. But if my boyfriend asked me what I wanted for Christmas or something, would it be weird to ask him for that? Or might he think I want it for something more?
Thanks guys.
I'm 21 by the way
2007-10-07 14:11:27 · 5 answers · asked by hopes&dreams 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he seemed weird it wouldnt hurt to just explain it to him, or casually mention maybe that you wouldnt mind a nice new ring, (display your old ring up on a finger that isnt the special one so he sees you dont mean a serious one)
maybe mention how you dont much like jewellery except for a simple ring, but just mention it all casually like you dont reeaaally care.
i doubt it would hurt to communicate it to him in just the way you communicated it here.
i got my gf a ring she wears on the middle finger. there wasnt any weirdness. it was a set with earrings tho so i guess it didnt look as "commitmentish"
maybe find one you like online and be like "oh, look at this ring, it looks so pretty, much better than the one i have here on my middle finger"
LOL, sounds corny, but you can add some finesse
2007-10-07 14:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ricardus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases it would be taken the wrong way as a promise ring or fear of loss or clingy. It typically means something more than just a gift if someone got you something like that. What a sad world that everyone has to assume people have ulterior motives. Hope I helped.
2007-10-07 14:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely not awkward. think of of it as like a entire compliment that she needs u to purchase her sumthing like that, thats so cool. and if u purchase her something hawt, and u get to work out her in it, much greater effective! jus bypass with it, i completely had a saweet time procuring stuff like that for my ex. from time to time the ladies working there r hawt to which makes it grew to become into much less confusing and you will completely get excitement from the full present day procuring component. kyle
2016-10-21 09:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wouldn't be wierd at all. Just tell him a simple reason why you want it.
2007-10-07 14:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not have any problem buying my lady a ring ---- its what pleases her ---- enjoy
2007-10-07 14:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋