i have never dated or been kiss, and some guys i will never like have asked me out.
i am 5'2, med. brown hair, thin,kind light brown eyes, great style.
i am witty, no the smartest person out there, i have many close friends, loviable i guess,wierd? confeident, trust worthy, i love music. i make good friends with alot of guys.
what is my problem, i'm tierd of feeling so alone, what should i do? what CAN i do?
2007-10-07 15:37:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all........stop thinking about it girl.....
when you forget that the world exist!!! the whole world remembers you!!
girl...just feel and liveyour life....be pretty and allways smile...youll never know who can be in the street ...
take it easy love cant be forced love just born..,
2007-10-07 15:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all this kind of depends on your age.
I've gone all through my teens and haven't been kissed yet. I've never really had a girlfriend - not officialy...mean nothing worth counting as that sort of relationship yet - and I know where your at. It's really hard to be lonely. I sometimes become very bitter over this vary issue and it seems to dominate my life (more along the lines of general loneliness though) . Don't think that there is anything wrong with you. You may just have to wait a day longer, or another 10 years, it's hard to say, but if you don't trust your self others won't trust you.
So I'm kinda off track. Don't worry about it. God feeds the sparrows every day, how much more valuable are you to him?
(I didn't just make that up btw).
You say you have a lot of guy friends? THATS GREAT!! The more guy friends you have the easier it will be to find the right one for you WITHOUT a ton of miserable breakups.
Chin up! I also find music has helped me get through a lot of my loneliness.
2007-10-07 22:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by We Walk Aløne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out the most important description--how old are you?
Now, if you're over 50 and never been kissed...well I would tend to wonder what you are so fearful of!
But, it sounds like you're young...in your teens...and you just may be picky. That's not always a bad thing. A guy should be worthy of you, and decent and polite.
Just give it time, the right guy will come along before you know it. And it will all be worth the wait!
2007-10-07 22:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy the company of your friends and wait. You haven't met the right guy yet but he is out there somewhere. If you are out of school, try going to other places to meet guys - you didn't say - perhaps join a bowling league, for example. It is better that you have never dated or been kissed than to have been dated and kissed with the wrong guy. If you are in school, by the way, you may be too good for those around you now and have to wait for someone who is not intimidated by you.
2007-10-07 22:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let go a little bit. Try to be more free flowing and more open to options. But not all out there and ...you know sluty. Try to flirt with some of the guys that you like but once again don't over do it. Well good luck!
2007-10-08 12:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by <3 to live life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to take a wild guess and say your between 14-16 sorry if I'm wrong but if so your young give it time and when the right guy comes you wont be disappointed.
2007-10-07 22:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you've missed out on the boys who have liked you. Don't lower your standards, but make sure you're being fair in your rejections. Maybe there are some guys who are just too intimidated because they think you'll say no.
2007-10-07 22:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try doing the asking out sometimes? Guys like a girl who takes initiative. Let's see how much confidence you really have. If you don't ask any guys out, what do you have to complain about? God bless.
2007-10-07 22:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off...it's not the best idea to advertise yourself that that on the internet, but aside from that...you have to know that there is nothing wrong with you, you just haven't found the right guy...you may not know this (and i may be kicked out of the guy club for this lol) but we guys are not exactly tactful and we know that, so it makes it hard for at least some of us to go up to a women and ask her out...if you find a guy that you like and you know he likes you, (and you should KNOW he likes you first) ask him out...good luck...you can email me if u like
2007-10-07 22:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should give a guy you don't really like at first a shot. or just start talking to the guys you actually can see yourself liking and maybe they'll ask you out. dont be picky though or it might not ever happen
2007-10-07 22:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋