I don't know why guys don't like me i may be a nerd but even the nerds find somebody i haven't found anybody and i don't know whether it's my social problems or my looks. please help me somebody?
2007-10-07 14:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely cat woman ^_^ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are 14 it seems like you have the responsibility of the whole world on your shoulders.
You are a young woman and are growing in your body as well as your mind, don't worry what others think. Have you ever listened to the most beautiful women in the world talking about how lonely they were at your age? They couldn't get boyfriends because they felt geeky and ugly.
You need to have fun and establish friendships where you care about each other first and foremost. Be patient with boys, they are very nervous when they like a girl and can't talk either.
It will all work out, speak with your mom, aunts or family friends, they are just like you with more experience.
Have fun, listen to your parents and work hard in school.
2007-10-07 14:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let it bother you. the guys at that age are still obsessed with looks too often and nothing more. You will find a boyfriend, a husband, and children little by little when the time is right but in the meantime, enjoy being 14 and if you worry about being a nerd, remember that Bill Gates was as well.
2007-10-07 21:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm.. just you wait, someday you will find the right guy, and you will know it. Maybe you could try changing the way you style your hair, or how apply a little bit of make up. But dont change to much just for a guy. Be yourself and everything will turn out great=] hope I can help <33
2007-10-07 21:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Laurra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine. Love takes time. Just because you haven't had a boyfriend doesn't mean that nobody wants to be your boyfriend.
2007-10-07 21:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Big Al! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fine at 14, dont stress it. but if you wanna attact attention then change the way you look. but do it gradually not all at once.
hope that helps.
gl & peace!
2007-10-07 21:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you need help with
2007-10-07 21:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋