ok well there is this guy......and i have liked him for quite awhile........and everytime i hear a sad song, i think about him.......and it really kills me. i know most people would say just go ask him out......but i cant because he has a girlfriend........and i know that they have been going out for 2 years......and this girl is one of my best friends. but i really really like this guy.......what should i do??? please give me an answer that you would do too. ( sorry this was kind of long.)
2007-10-07 14:27:00 · 4 answers · asked by brunettebeauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, since you're not like actually best friends with this girl i think it'd be ok to try and break them up. Since you know that he's best friends eith your ex...try to start hanging out with your ex again. Then this guy will be friends with you and it'll be easier to get him. Or if one of your friends is willing to help (**WINK WINK**) then she can hang out with your ex and then be friends with the guy and then if he asks her out then she'll say no but that there's a girl who is like her that is into him (you). Any way you go with, make sure you look your best and are totally flitacious. lol!
2007-10-08 09:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with your conundrum, but love is sometimes like that.Since this guy has been with this gal for 2years, and she also happens to be your best friend, there is nothing you can do.While I can appreciate your love of him and desire of him,he likes his girlfriend, she likes him and that is the way it is supposed to be.As painful as it may be for you, you may have to forget him and walk away.The alternatives are not ones that you will want to consider or be a part of.Keep the memory of your feelings safe in your heart and walk away from him and from the temptations that is staring you in the face. Don't do any of the things that I am sure you have thought about doing , all the plans in your mind.Your are much better than that.You will meet a good man very soon.who will worship the very ground you walk on.
2007-10-07 22:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright first you gotta decide if you like this guy more than your friend. If you REALLY like the guy, BREAK THEM UP! But if you like this guy THAT much break them up. Sabatoge will work then catch the guy on the rebound. You could start rumors, blackmail the list is endless. In the end if you do it right you would lose your friend (girl) but win the guy but the question is his he worth it?
2007-10-07 21:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is you best friend wow i would hate to be your ememy'
get a boy firend of your own and leave your best friends man alone omg
2007-10-07 21:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ANGEL45SWEETY~~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋