I first met this guy and thought wow he is such a dork... i have totally new thoughts after talking to him a few times on the phone and in passing! It normally takes a heck of a lot of personality for me to like someone if they are not physically attractive, and this guy is not ugly, but hes not gorgeous... help!!
2007-10-07 15:08:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is blind. Maybe he's adjusting to your imperfections too. Try and see the real person instead of the superficial view. Deep and committed relationships come from the heart, not the skin.
2007-10-07 15:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a boyfriend like that; when I first met him I thought he was fat and ok looking, but after I got to know him I realized that we had some of the same interest and the more I got to know him that more he was cuter to me and to me thats whats important. Having people around me that make me laugh, that I can have a good time with, or one that respects me; and me the way he looked at the beginning was completly different from when I looked at him after I got to know the real person he is. I hope that helps
2007-10-07 15:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by ninny325 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't all, although physical attraction means a lot, personality means more. Looks will fade as you get older and personality will always stay. But it doesn't hurt too look good! Be careful you might just fall in love with him, he sounds like a great guy =]
2007-10-07 15:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to abandon shallowness and appreciate someone for who they are.
Gorgeous guys are generally conceited and shallow, with very little underneath that is worth appreciating.
Maybe this guy has something worthwhile to offer. Good looks fade with time, but the inner person only becomes better and more attractive.
2007-10-07 15:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be spending a lot of time with someone... would you enjoy just staring at them all day long because they are hot, or would you rather enjoy their company and laugh and have conversations with them? The choice is yours. I would (and have) taken a guy as my boyfriend even when they were overweight, or didn't have perfect skin, because I enjoyed them for what and who they were. I don't want to date a magazine model.
2007-10-07 15:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by royrox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just go for it and see where it ends up. The best marriages are based on just good friendship. Having a great loving parter, is much better than a great looking parter that really doesn't love or respect you.
2007-10-07 15:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by mstrobert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person's looks can be improved. If he changed his dressing style, got a cool hair-cut, and maybe put some calone on, he'd change a lot in looks.
Last year in highschool, I usually didn't dress up every day; but on the days I got up early, I showered, styled my hair, and wore something nice, and I'd *always* hear girls (and sometimes teachers) complimenting me.
2007-10-07 15:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like this guy, and if i found someone who amazed me with there personality I wouldnt care if they were gorgeous or not... if you think hes repulsive then I wouldnt encourge you to go for it because you have to be able to be attracted, I would say go for it and see what happens :] best of luck.
2007-10-07 15:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do not hold a relationship together. Personality, the ability to converse, and brains are much, much more important. These things do not change much over time (usually), while looks definitely change over time, and often, not for the better.
2007-10-07 15:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just see this guy has a friend? But it is hard to make a relationship when you have no physical attraction to him!
2007-10-07 15:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋