so, i've liked this guy for about a month. i haven't liked anyone in a pretty long time so it was kind of a shock to me. anyway, i was really falling hard and we've gotten really close and flirtatious, but all of a sudden he's been driving me crazy! like, he's way too sensitive, and he can get kind of clingy and annoying, and all of the reasons why i liked him in the first place just don't seem important anymore. is this just a poor match for me or am i just getting too blind by the negatives?
2007-10-07 15:21:05 · 15 answers · asked by Mary 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you come on strong to him and now you blame him for reacting the same way to you.
I think you should perhaps both slow down and see what's real and isn't real.
It takes many years to build a relashionship and I bet you haven't even come close to that yet.
2007-10-07 15:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not too critical! It's nothing wrong with wanting the best for yourself but do not think there is a guy here on earth that will not have issues. It's a matter of if you want to deal with the issues until he is ready to change because you can not change a person.
There is nothing wrong with catching a fish and throwing it back into the water because there are plenty of fishes in the sea. Just make sure you are not doing anything (sex) with every "fish" you meet and regret it later!
Pray that God will send you the best person in your life compatible for you.
2007-10-07 15:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by savedbygrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the undemanding actuality you are able to already see, is that the guy is a real jerk. he will by no potential, ever take excitement in a reliable relationship with everyone as he will continuously circulate by way of existence offending people and scary them. Does he get punched alot? ;o) he's definitely abusive - abuse would nicely be psychological besides as actual, and protracted criticism is psychological abuse. in case you will ever married him, his words and scientific care of you would be seen so via any divorce court docket. To recover from your funk, take a step back and examine out your comparitive nicely worth... i don't comprehend you, yet you sound a young and considerate man or woman. i'm guessing you have people on your worldwide who like, appreciate and delight in you. you comprehend finished nicely that down the line you will meet somebody who honours you with each and all of the affection and love you deserve, and you will pay off that with a kindness which will shop them on your existence. Your ex-, on the different hand, will by no potential even comprehend himself not to show locate somebody who's keen to take his abuse and he will spend his finished self-absorbed existence that way.... you're too good to waste your self on him.
2016-10-06 07:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by devoti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to yourself for whatever reason you feel these things the point is that you feel them. Be honest with yourself and with him and at least you have a friend out of the whole thing. If more people were true to their inner self then the divorce rate would be way down. Good luck trust yourself and GOD and all will work out. I am living proof
2007-10-07 15:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was on his best behavior before you began getting close but now he is showing what he is really like. He probably lacks confidence in himself and you can either work with him on that or get rid of him and keep waiting for the right one to come along.
2007-10-07 15:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being too critical. The thing about crushes is that all we see are the positives -which make them so addictive. But as we grow to now our crush better -or anyone for that matter- we start to see the negatives.
If you believe the cons outweigh the pros... let him go.
2007-10-07 15:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably a poor match. It's not the end of the world, but you DID learn something, Right??
2007-10-07 15:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely Not!
Your eyes are wide open......
See, people put their best foot forward first. What allot of people do is show you something really great to get you...then once they have you they cannot help it ...but the song and dance begins to miss a beat? Or begins to mis-step?
He is beginning to slip....because, its no longer a challenge to him and he feels he can get away now showing his true colors.
Your it!
2007-10-07 15:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the saying is "you always want what you cant have"
maybe you thought you couldnt get him and now that you do your like "ah ok" next.
you havent liked someone for a while, why dont you take some time off from him and see if you still want his attention
2007-10-07 15:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by itsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor match. Be choosey.
2007-10-07 15:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋