Ive been talkin to this girl for like 3 months and she tells me she wants to be with me and she loves me but?

Question

but never has time to hang out with me. she is always to busy and says she will have time soon. i dont believe the stuff she says to me cause i have problems trusting girls. but everything she says like we are goin to have a future together and stuff. and she says shes gonna call me back and doesnt call for like 2 days and when she does she says she was very busy. and when i told her that i dont want to talk to her cuz she doesnt have time for me she cryed i really need answers for this i dont understand it. does she really mean what she says or is she playin games

Answer 1

Obviously your not that important to her. Tell her how you feel about that and don't ever expect change in a person.

Good luck out there.

Answer 2

Communicate with her and tell her what exactly you need to feel happy and satisfied in the relation. Ofcourse, her happiness and satisfaction is important too, but if this means that things will go on the way they are, you are never going to be happy! Your needs aren't being met. And hence, it looks like either this could be resolved with more time and communication and closeness, OR this is the way she is, and you need to make a choice whether you are OK with that missing quality. If u r not, no matter how much she cries, tell her sorry, and break it off. Better it happens now than later.
But do communicate with her about how you feel. If she tries to adjust, that's a good sign, if not, let her go.

Also, 3 months is a bit too soon as well, so I might give it more time, to give her the benefit of the doubt, if she is otherwise sending good vibes. If ur gut feeling says something is wrong and she might be playing games, mabe u r right there too.

I can't imagine a girl "loving" someone and not calling or forgetting about the person coz she is busy. Nah, something's wrong. Maybe she loves u, but isnt yet "in love" with you.

Answer 3

You see...girls liked being chased and pleased. Try giving her a dose of her own medicine. Don't call her for some time and you'll be surprised to know that she'll make a time to call you in the moment you least expected it. She'll probably call you or pay you a visit and ask you why haven't you been calling her. A person who loves someone will make an effort to to call you if he misses you.

If she loves you, she should have a time for you, right?!

So don't lose hope. Maybe you can work things out. Goodluck.

Answer 4

don't you think this person is not really who she is? where did you met this girl? via internet? gosh how old are you? people who dont show themselves are afraid that you will know who she really is and then walk away from her. didn't you think she might be a gay or probably old or even younger than you. next time you talk to her be firm and tell her you need to see each other and that this is gonna be the last time you'll ever ask her to meet up with you and if she still refuse then you got your answer...... look for someone else there are a lot of other fishes in the ocean my dear.

Answer 5

shes probably just shy because she like you so much. and maybe she is pretty busy. sometimes when i get nervous about that stuff ill put all of my homework and other stuff before picking up the phone or going on a date or w/e because im stressing about it and procrastinating. as to the not going out anwhere with you she must be wicked nervous and doesnt know how to handle herself on a date. to make your first goin gout thing more casual invite other ppl u kno or if uv been doing that for a while just keep at it. eventually she'll realize its better to just say yes.

Answer 6

You never said why she says she is busy. If she is in school, or has a legimate reason, then either be understanding, or move on. There is nothing worse that someone that keeps pushing when you can't change things. If you do, eventually, she will hate you.

Answer 7

she sounds like she's not playing games to me. i actually think that she's really busy, but it could just be me. after all, when you said that you didn't want to talk to her, she cried. i don't think that she would if she was just kidding around. she seems really busy to me because she promised you that she'd call, but didn't until two days later. why would she even tell you that she'd call then?

if i knew a guy for three months and he told me he wanted to get with me and that we'd be happy together, but he's been busy, i'd believe him because he shouldn't lie to me just to kid around. after all, you should know her by now...it's been three months.

i say that you should just give her a chance and see what she does. maybe you guys will be happy together. who knows?

good luck!! (:

Answer 8

get to know her but always keep in mind that if she truly wants to be with you she will take an active part in the relationship. why do you have trust issues? maybe you should deal with that first before getting involved with someone coz it might ruin a supposedly good relationship.

Answer 9

if she neva has time for u then i think u shud let her go. There is no relationship if there is only 1 person. U shud really talk 2 her