If you have a boyfriend and its a long distance relationship -[not that that matters'].. and you hang out with someone you havent seen in like two years and out of no where your friend you were hanging out with just kisses you.. and keeps kissing you at random moments throughout the night................. is that defined as cheating in a relationship.
2007-10-07 18:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Stacie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is in this case. If you pushed the person away than it wouldn't've been cheating. But since you didn't mention it, I can suspect that you didn't. Thusly you have cheated.
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2007-10-07 18:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Joyous Mommy ♥'s her ßoys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you let it happen then it's pretty much cheating. Long distance relationships are hard. You can't blame it on the person who kissed you or the situation. Just take responsibility for it and figure out if you can really be mature enough not to let things like that happen for the sake of your "long-distance relationship."
2007-10-07 18:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well stacie, you pose a good question. though you may have found your answer just by asking it. if you arent sure if whether or not what occured was cheating, then there is a very good chance that it very well may be. many times we seek outside sources on issues in attempts to try to convince ourselves of something we know in the back of our minds is true, but may not want to face. more specifically, if you were not uncomfortable with him kissing you, or afterwards did not feel regret from what occured, you may consider it cheating. however, if you were uneasy about him kissing you and maybe even tried to avoid some of his approaches you could consider it not cheating. hope i helped.
2007-10-07 18:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by adam f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that is a form of cheating, considering you did nothing to stop him from kissing you. If you care about your boyfriend, don't do that again.
2007-10-07 18:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want this person to stop and you liked it. Then you should think about what you're doing. If it's something that would break your loved ones heart, then yes it could be cheating.
2007-10-07 18:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by tristan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they kiss you,and its hello or goodbye, thats one thing but if the two of you are kissing all night long, ya, thats cheating
2007-10-07 18:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. But, have you made a commitment to the boyfriend of long distance.
2007-10-07 18:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by nora d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. because you let it happen.
either that, or cheating could be defined as "anything you dont want your partner to be doing behind your back." kissing, holding hands
2007-10-07 18:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't stop him and make it clear that you have a boyfriend and his actions were inappropriate, then yes it is a form of cheating!!
2007-10-07 18:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not what happens its what you are thinking ---- its possible to cheat without getting physical --- its when you think more of the person you are with than your girlfriend/boyfriend ----best wishes
2007-10-07 18:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋