What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.
Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"
i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!
2007-10-09 11:16:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is the one who dumped me...if that matters. I dont think she is trying to make me jealous though because then she would be calling all the time right???
The only thing I did was ask HER SISTER how the cat was and if i could see it....then SHE was the one to ask for my number. Other than that I have not contacted her once.
Oh and after she asked "do you need something..i texted back "just saying hi".. she didnt answer back and havent talked sense that was 2 weeks ago.
I'm 25 now and she is 22. We met when she was 17. It was my "first" and hers too
2007-10-09 11:19:01 · update #1
There is no answer to this question that will satisfy you.
For whatever reason, she has put you AND your communal cat out of her life. (See that as an exclamation point on the end of "no reminders.")
If you dated for five years, you were her only dating experience. One way of looking at dating is to sample a variety of relationships before perhaps finding a life partner and/or spouse. Perhaps she saw this time of seperation as an opportunity to socialize with other men. Perhaps you should, too.
After some time has gone by--6 months to a year--you might contact her as you would an old close friend, not as your former girlfriend. "How are you doing? Hope you are well. How's the old gang/your family/your job? I'm working at/started playing tennis/got a dog, whatever." You get the picture. Wish her well with no expectations and mean it. Either she will talk to you as an old friend or she won't. Take your cue and move on.
2007-10-09 11:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by smallbizperson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 22:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude it sounds like shes playing games with you....5 years is a long time but move on man. doesnt sound like its going to work.
2007-10-09 11:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by ReD SoX #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she's jeolous and wants ya back....
2007-10-09 11:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by sushiwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋