what should i do?

Question

what should i do if my mom dont let me see my boyfriend any more?

Answer 1

That is a tough one. First, take a step back and think about the reasons your mom has for not letting you see him. Try to think objectively as to whether these are truths about him that you don't really want to face. If you can see your mom's point, then let it go. However, if you truly feel like your mom is being unreasonable, then talk to her and see if there is some kind of compromise that can be reached. Maybe she would let you see him if he just came over to the house and visited, rather than going out. Or perhaps you guys could agree to just go out once a week or something. Good luck!

Answer 2

This is always a sensitive issue and you should tread carefully to avoid offending anyone.

Firstly, reason with your mum, ask her what it is specifically that she doesn't like about your boyfriend/why it is she won't let you see him - parents usually have a pretty good reason for it.

Why not invite your mum to meet his parents and then she'll probably get a better view of him as being some doting parents little boy aswell or why not try spending quality time, just the three of you?

Remember, you're always going to be your mom's little princess and she's always going to be a little bit overprotective but that's parents for you.

Show her that you're being mature about the whole thing by not deliberately going against her wishes and so try not to sneak out or see him behind her back or whatever.

But for the moment, I hope this helps.
Good luck =]

Answer 3

Seriously? Ask her why she feels that way. If she has good reasons that you cannot honestly refute, listen to her implicitly. If she has no plausible reasons, try debating the issue with her on a LOGICAL plane, without emotional pleas and the like, see if she won't come 'round. Most parents aren't unreasonable when properly approached, and I'm sure your mother is trying to look after your best interests, it's what parents do. Can't help themselves, they'll do it when you're adult, only then it's advice, not orders. She may see something through her years of experience with people that you, being young, would hopefully not have learned yet in life. Older people often see through a veneer people wear, where less experienced people tend to be more trusting, and go at face value. Try to see why she's doing it....it might be to your benefit.

Answer 4

How old are you? You probably won't understand now but Mom's have an inner feeling about guys, is there any reason she's giving you, what kind of a guy is he, what kind of grades does he get, what does he plan on doing with his future, are you too doing things you're not supposed to be doing yet? There are million reasons. Maybe some of these are the reasons your Mom feels you shouldn't see him anymore. Think about it.

Answer 5

Since your mom is still telling you what to do, I'm going to assume that you still live with her and that you're a minor. Also, there's not enough information here for anyone to give you a good answer but, if what I mentioned above is true then, listen to you mother. She's older and can probably see things in people that you can't. You could just be enfatuated and he could be an older person just trying to take advantage of you.

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Answer 6

Be a rebel and do what most people do keep seeing him and dont let your mom find out.

Answer 7

Why will she not let you see him? If there was a problem or he's too old or in a gang then try to reason with your mother, but the worst thing you can do is lie to her or go behind her back to see him.

Answer 8

Find a new boyfriend that will piss your mom off even more than the last and then the other one wont seem so bad

Answer 9

if that happened to me i would simply tell her what if i said u cant see dad anymore thats what its like , yeah im your kid and i cant do that but wouldnt u upset and depressed, make her in your postion and try to explain to her. or just meet up with him at a friends or the mall and keep it a secert and if she finds out be like i cant just leave my byofriend , i really like him and i dont think it is fair for this to happen. depending on the reason she should understand unless its a big reason why u cant see him anymore

Answer 10

I would be interested to know why your mum has made this decision. I think she must have had good reason? Ask her if you can have one more chance and then get your boyfriend to come to your house and speak to your mother himself. He has to prove that he is going to be well behaved (I can only imagine what you two have been up to). If your bf is serious about you, he will want to win back your mother's favour.