In essentially every question I've asked it's been the same sad story, I am a nice kid, a soon to be national merit scholar and want to date this one girl.
Unforunately, I ****** around and another asshole got her first. I am working under the assumption that she has finally realized that most guys are just jerks because of the fact that she broke it off with the other jerk.
Anyways, I need a plan so this time I get her to be mine. No screwing around, I need a real plan, that makes her relalize that I am the guy for her because I am sweet and very intelligent. Please help me. I am willing to listen to whatever any of you say.
I need to get right to the point and not screw things up again. I will give 10 points to who I believe has the best idea. Thank you.
2007-10-09 10:13:48 · 13 answers · asked by positiveaspectofnegativethinking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need for a gimmick or games. Straight and to the point is best. Just tell her how you feel, how you thought you had screwed up by not acting sooner, and how you weren't going to wait around for another guy to beat you to the punch. Just be honest and sincere and she will see that you aren't one of those jerks.
Fingers crossed for you!
2007-10-09 10:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lorien C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very sweet sincere guy, so the best thing would be to be honest. Maybe you could write her a letter, or better still a poem/song explaining how you feel about her, and just ask her out on a date to go for a coffee or something so you can get to know her better. Just take it easy and if it doesn't work out then fine, but the important thing will be that you tried.
2007-10-09 17:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Dazedandconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop referring to yourself as an ******. I am thinking you mean that you missed the boat ? and that you didn't actually screw around on her. In all honesty you don't want her to walk all over you so don't lose your mind over it. Obviously you really like her and girls like that. You need to give her the attention and recognition she needs but not in a false way. Ask her for coffee or slip her a note saying that you'd like to talk to her if you're shy. Are you in high school? I;m asking only because it seems like girls like jerks for some reason around that time in their lives, and they always need someone to talk to about it. Maybe that could be your angle. I hope some of this helps and I hope you like this girl for the right reasons
2007-10-09 17:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her the same thing you just told me. Tell her you care for her and that you will be good to her. Just come out and tell her what you feel. Send her flowers with an invitation to dinner and a date with you. Don't give up, sometimes we like to play hard to get. Find out from her friends what she likes. Her friends will tell her that you asked, this is a good thing. Be honest about the way you feel. Hurry and don't dick around this time. Good luck
2007-10-09 17:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by laura seeks the Kwisatz Haderach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is be yourself. you need to show that not all guys are jerks, that there are some sensitive and caring guys.
you want to romance her with her favorite things. if she loves a certain kind of flower, buy her a dozen and leave them in her locker with a note.
take her on a romantic date to a nice restaurant. buy her something that shows that how much you really know and understand her.
2007-10-09 17:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by theloverofwords 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and start from that point. When your dealing with emotions plans do not work. Or just try talking to her for an opener, You have got to move or you will loose out again!
2007-10-09 17:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her for the jerks she's had, feed her a good meal with no expectation of getting anything in return and ask her if she would please call you (give her your phone number).If she doesn't, she's maybe a hopeless ingrate.Or that you just aren't her type for now, maybe years later, but not now.
2007-10-09 17:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to drop your bullocks. Get a bouquet of flowers and hand them to her and ask her out in front of all her friends. Even if she says know one of them will fall for the romantic in you. She might be into loosers, so get ready for rejection. This is a part of growing up. GL
2007-10-09 17:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do:
Be yourself! Be yourself! Be yourself!
If you're really that nice and intelligent then she will notice those qualitites.
You don't need "a plan" just go up to her and ask to hang out with her-just talk to her.
Taa-daa!
2007-10-09 17:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Edith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could send her some flowers with a note saying you can't stop thinking about her, you think she's a beautiful person (or whatever) and would she please go out with you.
2007-10-09 17:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋