He likes me. He knows i like him. we have kissed alot. i have known him nearly 2 weeks. He said he wants to slow it down, his just turned 16. im 17. He says he wants freedom to play and we are just "fooling around". I like him, im not into playing around, but he doesnt want a girlfriends soo. I could just give up yes. but before u say that. if u give me some hints in how to make him realise how much he is preparred to do to keep me.
2007-10-09 10:42:57 · 17 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try not to fool around so much. back off a little and see how he reacts. if he still kisses you and stuff then he probably wants you. he might have just said he doesnt want a girlfriend right now because he doesnt want to get hurt. but don't move too fast by telling him you like him so much and all that stuff. just keep your cool and watch how he acts around you. try playing hard to get
2007-10-09 10:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by ThrillsRcheap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring him and giving him the space he asks for is probably the best advice. Stalking him or trying to put yourself conveniently in his path will just create further distance and make him realize he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe you should just take him for his word - he knows he doesn't want to settle down in a relationship right now so either go with that and have fun or be done with him altogether. You wouldn't' want someone trying to make you realize anything, would you? Good luck.
2007-10-09 17:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by needstoknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he's way too young, but also what I'm thinking is the you could've done something to turn him off and made him realize he really doesn't wanna be with you. Because let me tell you that when a person really wants you or loves you, you'll be surprise of the things they are willing to do in order to keep you!
2007-10-09 17:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by pisces86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to be with you, he would. You can't make him realize something that isn't true. Why do you think he's willing to do anything to keep you? I don't mean to offend you, but the truth is that he's honestly just getting what he wants from you and if you leave him, he's going to find someone else to get it from. I know it sounds harsh, but I'm not sure that there's a delicate way to put this.
2007-10-09 17:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has to realize it himself. He has told you what his intentions are so you have to back off. He isn't into having a girlfriend. Maybe, he will miss you if you aren't around as much. Try talking to other guys and see if that gets his attention.
2007-10-09 17:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by thebooksherpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound like he is prepared to do anything but fool around. You see it, I see it, don't ignore it, just move on. You can't make him realize he wants you in any other way but a nice snatch unless he himself changes his mind. C'est la vie.
2007-10-09 17:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by allthatsolid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu can't make him realize anything. If a guy truly wants to be with a girl, then he will. In your case, he's made it plain that he doesn't want that with you...and there is nothing you can do about it. You are fooling yourself if you think you can make him do anything, and if you try, you will only push him away.
2007-10-09 17:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let him go, if he does feel anything for you he will realise when you're not there waiting for him to make up his mind.
2007-10-09 17:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you better check yourself woman.. you're older because he's hotter and this is going to mess you up.. he'll eff anybody rite now is what he's saying and you're just another sport at the moment... BUT the football doesn't keep putting its-self back in his hands.. get it.. let him dive to catch you.. get another boy to kiss and this foo will be your sucker
2007-10-09 17:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your fooling yourself. it sounds like he is honest when he says he doesnt want a girlfriend. i think he's interested in another chick, probably a much finer chick than you
2007-10-09 17:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by j dddddd 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋