Singles & Dating - 9 October 2007

I think this is beautiful, you know, the adrenaline, the unspected experience (very different to first date sex, cause you have planned it), all this the explosion of confusing feelings, the expectations of an unplanned moment. Taking protection, obviously. I just have had this experience 4 times. Unvelievable...

2007-10-09 16:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like this boy but he dosen't know that i like hem what should i do.

2007-10-09 16:31:36 · 5 answers · asked by eloy matar 1

i have known her for few years we r best freinds but i have only kissed her never knew how to ask her out for real any advise?ps she means the world to me as a freind...but i want to be more

2007-10-09 16:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by luvlife 1

Do you think that it is bad for a woman to just have a "friend with benefits"? I know it is a great situation for a man, but does the woman usually get too attached and finally end in heartbreak? Do you think this is a possible relationship from womans perspective?

2007-10-09 16:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by Erin 2

it was a foggy night and she wrecked going home from seeing me and not many people know this besides my parents that i spend every night sleeping my truck beside her grave before it gets dark to sunrise and sometimes all day because im thinking if there is any chance in her looking down on me that she still knows that i care and my parents keep telling me that if she was looking down she would raither me go on with my life but im even more scared if i quit then she will think i quit caring what should i do?

2007-10-09 16:25:09 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Look at all the pictures on my photos if you plan on posting your opinion please and thank you. Some say i am some say im dead sexy (mostly people who see me in person, its a lot better camara hates me) and i still got made fun on in school...

http://www.myspace.com/_twist3d_

2007-10-09 16:01:19 · 9 answers · asked by Katherine S 2

Thanks

2007-10-09 16:01:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz im really really nervous in front of them
im so nervous that i barely ever talk to them

2007-10-09 15:56:41 · 15 answers · asked by captainwinters1944 2

2007-10-09 15:49:58 · 4 answers · asked by A D 1

I'm in my mid 50's, single and took a break from dating a year ago.
I just felt like I had so much going on in my life, I had no room or nothing to give to another person.
Trying to deal with family issues, work issues, financial difficulties, bouts of depression, natural menopause, a bad back, some nerve damage. See what I mean?
Hey, it's helloo getting old :)
I met a man a year ago through a mutual friend, I don't think I was being set up because I had already made up my mind to take a break from dating, which I have done in the past. I've only seen him maybe about 6 times within the last year.
He let me know he liked me and wanted to go out, but I told him nothing personal, I was on a dating break. I have told him this every time we saw each other through mutual friends.
Last week, I saw him with our mutual friend and told him again, I'm on down time for me, nothing personal. This time he said, well maybe that's just what you do need.
Once I got home & thought about it..

2007-10-09 15:48:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13, in the 7th grade, and in love with a girl for the right reasons (shes nice, cute, ect...). Problem is, that I have absolutly NO chance. This girl has about 5 different guys after her, but only because shes hot. Most of my friends think I only like her because she has big boobs (which isn't the reason why I love her). I'm nervous to ask her out or have my friends. Even if my friend asks her out for me, I wont be able to show my face around her (shy/nervous). Nervous about her saying no, that she may thing I'm wierd, and that I'm insane. Again, NO CHANCE. What should I do? She is in 4 of my classes which makes it harder, but good thing is I'm alittle older than she is (people in my school think if someone is even a day older, your screwed up).

2007-10-09 15:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm 25, in college, about 5'6", 135 lbs, brown hair (sometimes dyed black), gray eyes, glasses.

For this question, it might help to look at my my picture at: www.myspace.com/gingivere

Okay, I'm really shy and have a hard time meeting new people. But once I know you I'm fine.

I'm not really into sports or any of the macho stuff. I'm into computers (but not gaming), reading, writing, history. I occasionally party, but not to excess. I drive a crappy old car, and currently don't have a job or much money.

I'm not a 'bad boy' and I'm not a cocky asshole - and I refuse to become one just to MAYBE have a girl like me.

I've only had two serious girlfriends in my entire life - the last one was almost two years ago now. I've never done any sort of casual dating, and never asked anyone out (except for maybe once in high school).

Is there any hope for me? I'm starting to think that I'm really not attractive in ANY way.

2007-10-09 15:34:45 · 22 answers · asked by tryandfindus 5

2007-10-09 15:25:18 · 14 answers · asked by Tony1001 1

How do I chat with more then one person so we all can chat at the same time

2007-10-09 15:19:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your parents told you to find a girlfriend/boyfriend that is the same race----(Chinese,Spanish,European, etc) as you would you listen? why?

2007-10-09 15:10:00 · 13 answers · asked by ♣♥♠♦ 3

I am a freshmen in HS this year and have never had a boyfriend...ONLY crushes. I have never been kissed and never been on a date..... I am kinda a shy person but I thought that I would have a bf by now. All of the guys I like are preppy and popular and I am neither of that. Did anyone else not date much in high school but later on found some one?? I want to grow up and get married but based on middle school and part of high school...I will probably be an old maid. And I highly doubt I will get a bf in the rest of my hs years cuz i live in a small town and all the people in my grade, i am not interested in cuz i have grown up with them since elementary school. Everyone I know has had a boyfriend....and i haven't. I am scared some people will start to think I am a lesbo even though I am NOT! I know that there are some guys that like me but I don't have the same feelings for them that they do for me......is that okay???? I don't really want a bf right now anyways. Please give me advice.

2007-10-09 15:02:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard of this guy who wrote a book about how a single woman can find a man just by dressing up to go grocery shopping or something. I saw him on Oprah. Realistically I don't usually go out looking spiffy to shop. Heck I've gone out without makeup, perfume, and brushed hair. What do you think?

2007-10-09 14:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex broke up in june but we still love each other a lot. we only broke up because we were loosing our focus of the important things out side of our relationship. After we broke up we still claimed each other as hubby and wifey. but he also did a lot of things that hurt me and i forgave him but i'm not sure if i should've. but i can't help but to love him and want to be with him. he's working on growning up so that we can be togetha later. and he wants to marry me in acouple of years and no doubt i want to marry him. but i'm not sure if i should trust that he will change for my love for himor if i should just move on please help me.

2007-10-09 14:56:50 · 1 answers · asked by silky_smooth4life 1

What if your guy friend has a crush on you, but you only like him as a friend? And you don't want to hurt his feelings or your friendship, but you just don't like him that way.

2007-10-09 14:55:42 · 11 answers · asked by mAnGa FrEaK 2

What do you think of a guy who every time he looks at you says I love you, over and over after dating 9 months .. Don't you think one or two times a day is enough? Is he insecure, or boring.. can;t think of anything else to say?

2007-10-09 14:43:53 · 30 answers · asked by enquiring mind 2

i am a tall girl...5'11 to be exact and i have lots of great features. Which do guys prefer? Big boobs or big ***?

2007-10-09 14:42:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So Many People Are Telling Me That It Is Wrong....What Do You Have To Say?

2007-10-09 14:41:59 · 30 answers · asked by Angela 1

theres this guy at school that i am really into. as soon as we met, we clicked instantly. we always talk, joke,and FLIRT like crazy.but sadly, every girl he has gone out with so far are MAJOR WHORES. and every single one of his previous gf's hated me soo much. and for some reason, when he sees me flirt with other guys (i only do this when he is going out with one of his gf's) he got really mad at me, and i would ask why. then he would just blow me off. but the next day everything was back to normal. Why does he get mad, he oviously likes his gf better than me, so y does he care?

- i know i already posted this, but no1 has answered me yet

2007-10-09 14:36:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, so I have this hot neighbor whos on my bus and I talk to her allot....I got her number today...but whenever my sister is around my confidence is shot. Every time I go to talk to my neighbor my sister gives my this look of disgust like shes ashamed of me...for instance today I sat in seat 11 then my friend wanted to talk so I sat in seat 12....after I was done there was a girl with her arm on my seat so i tapped it out of the way. My sister Looked at me like she was disgusted with me....Shes always constantly telling me I'm ugly and disgusting. Even though I know I'm not. I don't know why this happens but its annoying...and my sister shouldn't be one to judge shes the biggest tramp alive.....
My sister is 16
I am 17 turning 18 soon.
What can I do about this?

2007-10-09 14:35:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always wanted to date a white boy but being black its so hard to find a white boy who want to talk to a black gurl like me! Why does the world have to be so intergrated when it comes to interracial dating?

2007-10-09 14:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1

I have been with my boyfriend for about one year 1/2. A few months ago, he went to visit his family in another country. Shortly after he returned, he invited me over to his house one afternoon. When I got there he was asleep and not wanting to disturb, I went to check my email. His email was open, and even though I shouldn't have, I saw a picture of his private parts sent by email to a woman who he obviously met while visiting his family. I confronted him and he admitted it was wrong and he was sorry, but that nothing happened and it was innocent flirtation. This happened one month ago. I still do not think I trust him. I asked him to send an email to her telling her he was involved in a monogomous relationship and that he only thinks of her as a friend. He has refused to do this, saying I am being controlling and that she is truly a friend. I have argued.. ad nauseum.. that how could he said a "friend" a picture like that??? Your thoughts? I'm still struggling with forgiveness...

2007-10-09 14:25:17 · 26 answers · asked by Dee 2

2007-10-09 14:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and my friends were talkin about how
we'd like to date outside our race
and we try talkin to white dudes or asians dudes
and it never works maybe its the wrong approach
maybe they dont find us attractive i dont know what it is
i would love to try interracial dating
i need an opinion
Are you all men(attractive white,hispanic,asian,other men) intimidated by a black woman trying to get with you?

Khadijah_abdul@yahoo.com

2007-10-09 14:14:20 · 16 answers · asked by khadijah A 1

I was ride in my car yesterday and i seen a friend of mine that i have not seen in ten months but i still have feelings for him he was in the car with his brother but i didnt know he was in there cause of the window tent was so dark but anyway he rode down the window cause he seen me and gave me a look and smile at me and than they drove off and i did not get a chance to talk to him should i call him but if he would not never rode down his window i would not never knew he was there.

2007-10-09 14:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

just to clear things up, what's bothering me is not about money, it's about thought. my boyfriend and i don't go out and do things a lot that cost money, and it doesn't bother me, because we have fun together, and that is what matters to me. he and i both have jobs and make money, but he does make more than i do. he contributes a *lot* to his mom's bills, and not only that, pays for *her* gas for her car, even though she works (she spends her money...not wisely.) i am a single mom (my daughter is from a previous relationship) so most of my money goes towards taking care of her :) :) today he said something though that really bothered me...i mentioned something about starting christmas shopping early- i do it slowly and budget my money- and i said i wanted his sizes for clothes, and he said that he didnt want people buying him anything because he wasn't buying anything for anyone! do i have a right to be upset over this? i am *not* a gold digger, i pay for myself...but still...

2007-10-09 14:01:24 · 42 answers · asked by ~kim~ 3