I always wanted to date a white boy but being black its so hard to find a white boy who want to talk to a black gurl like me! Why does the world have to be so intergrated when it comes to interracial dating?
2007-10-09 14:34:55 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm caucasian and my boyfriend is Chinese. So from time to time we do get a stare or two....but they are from close minded idiots. We really don't care what others think...our families accept our relationship, our families get along and he and I love each other. That's all that matters. We don't care about race.
2007-10-09 14:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not that you can't fall in love with a person of another race, but the fact is that the farther apart the two are, it's a selfish decision, and when the kids come along, especially if it's a very dark person with a very light person, then there can be problems with the children's identity.
Should and is it fair for a white child to grow up completely surrounded by black people (always wondering why they're so different) or a black child forced to grow up among completely white people ? They WILL accede to one side or the other, but you need to experience it yourself. Just go to a few gatherings with an opposite race by yourself. Judge if you don't feel weird. The Grandparents on each side often DO NOT get along!
Anyway even though believing one race is superior to another may be wrong and unfair, it seems to me it's not wrong to perceive a difference! Go to ANY jail in America and you will IMMEDIATELY see that Blacks, Whites, Hispanics, Asians, stick to their own and are considered traitors to go to another side. THEY WILL get forced away from the pack. The same happens to the offspring of the selfish couple.
No man is an island, and birds of a feather, flock together.
2007-10-09 14:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by sunrayman123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. however, i'm dating an indian boy. it can be hard sometimes because there is always that 2 or 3 people who point and say "oh stick with your own race" or you know something ignorant like that. but as long as your happy it shouldn't matter what others think.
but as far as finding a white man, keep looking! i KNOW there are some white men out there that want a black girlfriend.
race, nor sex, should define who you date, that's all i have to say.
good luck <3
2007-10-09 14:43:09 · answer #3 · answered by hellojames09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some insecure guys who are single and can't get a date feel this way, but the great majority of white men simply dont care. White men are still the most preferred race of men to date and marry, as indicated by OKCupid and Are you interested fb app, which when combined have over 3million female members.White men know, that 90% of WW exclusively prefer white guys,and out of the remaining,the great majority just want black men for sex.If any race is really affected and angry by interracial, its most certainly Asian men, not only are Asian women dissing them for white men, but all other women are simply rejecting them l.
2016-05-20 02:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go for it! :D
i think culture/race blending is so beautiful! not only does it show living proof that different races can live in harmony, but its another step in stopping judging/discrimination/racism!
dont think just because you are a different race that you cant love others! i know the world and some parents say its wrong, but i think its totally great
i think the world is mostly against it because most races are so restricted and so into their own safety bubble, so change is just too much for them
and also, loving other races besides your own shows that you look at a person's heart, not they physical appearance! [:
good luck!
2007-10-09 14:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just ignorant, and refuse to accept the fact that it isnt so uncommen these days, im quite comfortable about it as i know of people who are from different races that date, id even consider it if i met the right person
2007-10-09 14:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is racist for you to want to date a white guy just because he is white. Race shouldn't be a consideration most families are mixed somewhat now and it is accepted.
2007-10-09 14:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't care about who dates who. As long as the two people are happy with each other than it doesn't matter what color they are. Just be happy
2007-10-09 14:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think to each their own. Now if my son brought home a white girl....that would be a hard ball to chew, but I guess I would deal with it as long as my son was happy. I guess...
2007-10-09 14:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know i hate it but my dad is white and my mom is black so i guess you'll find a white boy someday
2007-10-09 14:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by LBauburn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋