how do u know when to stop loving him?

Question

me and my ex broke up in june but we still love each other a lot. we only broke up because we were loosing our focus of the important things out side of our relationship. After we broke up we still claimed each other as hubby and wifey. but he also did a lot of things that hurt me and i forgave him but i'm not sure if i should've. but i can't help but to love him and want to be with him. he's working on growning up so that we can be togetha later. and he wants to marry me in acouple of years and no doubt i want to marry him. but i'm not sure if i should trust that he will change for my love for himor if i should just move on please help me.

Answer 1

NEVER, EVER, EVER!!! GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WERE YOU WANT THE OTHER PERSON TO CHANGE!!!!! It is the most arrogant, most fool-heated ideal that someones going to change for you just because of love. That aside love is never enough, its how you use it. And its on YOU, weather or not he is using it right. So you make that choice, if you like the way he LOVES YOU, then tolerate this crap, its your life, now if you don't like the way he loves you, well get out of there, it isn't going to change..... don't believe me, stike around alittle longer.....