Singles & Dating - 9 October 2007

ok a girl I really like is going to give me a note saying that she likes me so much and her friend likes me too and so she doesnt want to come between that and but i dont like her friend at all and so its going to be too hard so please tell me ehat i sould say before i get it

2007-10-09 04:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by Shane 2

im so damn pissed and wish i can jump back in time; i asked the guy i really really like for some money only because he kept insisting that if i run out of money here at school, i should ask. i never wanted to, i never asked my own parents for money in my whole life and the idea of asking someone for it doesn't really tickle my imagination. might be that i am a weirdo, but i grew up to depend on myself only and i have some silly feminist attitudes at times.. then i run out of it, and ask him. he hesitates! the mere fact he hesitates embaressed the hell out of me. i was so damn hurt and felt that i just wanna vanish.thank goodness it wasn't face to face.. we were chatting, but he didn't exactly say yes the way i expected him.. and i ran off. can't talk to him now. not because of the money thing, but because it means i really don't mean anything to him. if i were him, at least if i had NO money (btw, he did say he has some so he aint broke) i would at least say 'sure' than apologize! :s

2007-10-09 04:00:34 · 1 answers · asked by JustMe 3

me and my boyfriend have been going together for 5 months and i really like him a lot. i chose to go with him because we like each other aand we are so much in common but there is this person that is trying to break us up

2007-10-09 03:51:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for 3 years and he still has issues....What can I do to reassure him I'm here for the long run? Help me out people!

2007-10-09 03:50:22 · 29 answers · asked by CILLA 1

anyway,i stilll have his house keys etc which he has not collected. now all of a sudden he is asking my family and friends about me how i am etc. he is not dating anyone else.what i dont understand he got angry and said bad things,so i thought that was it. advise please?

2007-10-09 03:43:20 · 16 answers · asked by ann-marie m 1

my g/f told me that i'm too much a nice guy, and she was alil tired of me and bored and im too shy. She told me i could make her happier by being more outgoing but way too shy to be. we have been dating for about 2 months but we have known each other for close to 2 years now. the nice guy thing has haunted with every girl i've ever dated. I just dont know what to do and i need some major help. she told me she isnt going to break up with me real soon but if things keep she probably will in 2-3 months.

2007-10-09 03:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by adcock87 2

I have some signs I felt like my mate is cheating. Ok she works for at Arrons Rentals from 9am-9pm nightly Mon-Sat. Yeah long hours. She sometimes call me on her lunch break. But latley she has not. i have noticed that she is starting to waer perfume now and she is always taking a shower before she go to work every morning. Now this is something new!!! Whenever I try to have sex with her latley it would be an excude that she has a yeast infection and that she is using something to cure it right now and somenights she be tired. This went on for about the last three nights. Ohh yeah we do stay together. She always gets upset when I confront her about her. one more thing is that she is the only female in the store of about 6 guys!! Is she cheating???

2007-10-09 03:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by MMM Ice Cream 1

Is having a GF all it's cracked up to be? I'm homeschooled and almost 14, almost. Never had a girlfriend, I go to church blah blah blah.... But, is having a GF all they say it is? Is it really that great? Or is it like taking care of a baby, if you call them a minute past six they whine 4 six hrs. Is it all they say it is?

2007-10-09 03:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Alberto Inestine 2

where do I go to meet quality women that might be attracted to fit bald man.

exclude gym/work/a church

2007-10-09 03:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by guile 1

look at christmas? itis fast approaching and while i have wrote out what i am getting everyone and started my xmas shopping (i dont have to worry about cards/gift wrap cos i buy them in the jan sales..i have a suitcase of lovely expensive cards/wrap for cheap!) my bf hasnt even thought about it! infact the only thing i know he has done is bought me a pink ghd on ebay..and thats only cos i saw him paying via paypal! he refuses to 'do christmas cards cos hes not a card person' so i have bought all his family cards for him to give and started re-trawling the catalogues and picking oput what he can buy my family at xmas as well as his own! why oh why cant men be more organised like us women?

2007-10-09 02:45:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 years old and this girl I like A LOT recently got a job at Ihop. I already have a job but I don't get very many hours. I have until today at 3pm to either take the Ihop job or stick to my current job and look for another job. I don't really need another job, but I would probably get more hours. BTW I applied at Ihop and they want me to come in for orientation today. The deciding factor for me is I'm debating wether or not I want to risk losing this girl because she might get tired of me seeing me almost everyday. She knows I like her a lot and we have been friends for about a year now. When we hang out we have fun, we laugh and talk a lot. I want this job but I don't if it would hurt my chances with this girl. What should I do? I heard that its a good idea not to take a job with a girl you like because they won't miss you and enjoy hanging out as much because they see you a lot. I really need some advice.

thanks

2007-10-09 02:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by BAS 2

sorry, i knew that if i wrote it out, they wouldnt post this question, but I just need people to describe these people and why they are like they are,

why do so many seem to be women?

Do women need it more than men, maybe?

why so?

also do they just tease and flirt with guys they dont have any attraction to at all, just so they get this much wanted attetion?

again, why is it so important to them?

power?

2007-10-09 02:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who is a boy he is 16 nearly 17 and he has never kissed a girl before or had a girlfriend. i dont know why he's cute and kind. he says he is nervous and tried to kiss me the other day i would of because i like him but i already have a man. he says that his mates make fun of him because he hasnt got a girl so asked me to pretend to be his girl and kiss him in front of his mates or tell him to get his own girl?

2007-10-09 02:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by Saiyan_Pokemaster 4

I don't know who it was, but It's really cute, and a clever idea. The card just says "Enjoy" with a smiley face. Lol what do i do? I seriously don't know who did it..

2007-10-09 02:18:01 · 30 answers · asked by xorenée 7

2007-10-09 02:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 2

Well i guess this question is up to the person. But would you still want or be attractive to a girl who had sex during the summer with a guy more then once and your thinking about going out with her or at least trying to see if there something there?

2007-10-09 02:07:48 · 12 answers · asked by X-Man 1

my bf is usually really laid back but on monday (after i had stayed at his house over the weekend) i realised i had run out of knickers so grabbed a pair of his boxers to wear home under my jeans. i didnt tell him at the time cos we were in a rush. i texted him to tell him i had pinched a pair of his boxers and that they were really comfy. he wasnt impressed and told me never to do that again cos he didnt like the idea of anyone (no matter who they were) wearing his underwear. am i missing something here? its just a pair of boxers and he has tons of them? why has he gone so wierd? we ended up rowing over it last night on the phone and i rang him today and he was still in a mood!

2007-10-09 02:07:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been teased to death by this one woman, and I keep having people tell me that she is doing it to make her feel "powerful" is all.

PLEASE what does this mean??

Does it mean it makes her feel like she is the most wanted , fairest beauty of them all or what?

why?

why do they feel so much need for this to mess with someone elses head?
thanks for helping me understand this.

2007-10-09 02:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for 8 months now. i'm in my second year of college at a city about an hour away from home so i'm at a dorm. about 2 weeks ago he started at hometowncollege (so yes, he's a year younger, but very mature though!). we see eachother on weekends, but that's the way it was from the beginning. the last few weeks we rarely heard from eachother: i thought he was having doubts or was angry and he thought the same of me. when we saw eachother everything was fine though, no strange behaviour, ...
this weekend i spent the night at his place from saturday to sunday and we had so much fun: out for dinner, renting movie, we were hugging eachother all the time and so in love. things have never been better.
he also texts a lot more again, and yesterday he said he realised how much he loved me saturday, and that he was scared before cause he didn't hear from me, but that saturday "i appeared to be that sweet girl he fell in love with again."
what does he mean by this last sentence?

2007-10-09 02:04:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok say a 17 year old guy kissed a 13 year old girl... After their first kiss together will the 17 year old want more like sex or more kissing?And after the kiss u know they say thats all they can basically think bout but do u even think him at his age still thinks bout it? So answer this please when a 17 year old guy kisses a 13 year old is all they basically want is sex or more kissing after that? i know it sounds perverted but please just answer my question....

2007-10-09 02:02:35 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-10-09 01:52:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy he is everything my ex was not .Ambitous,understanding sympathetic.He has his life together and he thinks woman should be respected not neglected.The thing is him and my ex use to be Best friends that is until he went away.Should I wait till he comes back and confess how I feel or just leave it at a friendship even if I am longing for him.

2007-10-09 01:48:33 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda M 1

i have known him for 2 years and he is a wonderful man who is wonderful to me. im not sure wether to take the plunge???

2007-10-09 01:47:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved her from FL to CT about 8 months ago. But since I have lost my interest in her physically. She is a sweet lady.

2007-10-09 01:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay im 18 and just started college. this guy in one of my classes likes me and wants to get coffee together or something. hes a nice guy but i dont know if I want a relationship because im young and just started college. i want to explore my options. i also wonder if there is something better when it comes to guys. is there anything wrong with this?? Besides im kind of emotinally immature. im just scared. what should i do?????

2007-10-09 01:46:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a very nice man the other day. He was in his 30s. He has a good stable job, no kids, he wanted to hold my hand after 2 hours, he likes cartoons, he is very polite and cares about health, he's kinda nerdy, he can't kiss (lol..that was at the end of the night, and it wasn't even a kiss..it was like a peck..no tongue action), he sent me a short email a day later that just just said "hi, and how are u doing? and they comnented on my nice car)..he dresses like a geek I guess, I mean no fashion sense at all, he's kinda frugal, but he was a gentelman, opened doors for me, drove me home even when I took bart and could have taken it back home. What do you make of this? He's in his 30s, I think he's cute, but he acts like he hasn't really been out with girls. Is this possible? To me it's adorable, but if this is true, then I may have something here. We both have some similiar interests. What do u think?

2007-10-09 01:44:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and not be insecure with my new boyfriend. We have been 2gether for 4 months and I'm so paraniod of him talking to his xwife and we work together and he is going to get a new job and im so worried , cause thats how we met was at work, so what if he meets a girl at his new job. I just wanna trust him and he hasnt given me a reason not to trust him. I'm so afraid if I just believe every word he says I will be a fool and get hurt.

2007-10-09 01:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by dreamer 3

I want to have a girlfriend at this age of 13 and i know that im just being ignorant so i want to try it but take it seriously. The problem is people try to ruin my sex because i have a different voice,i play volleyball and not prefer basketball but i also liked basketball its just that its more easy to play volleyball than basketball. People judge and discriminate my sex which affects what the girls think what i am which also leads to a very big problem which they reject me because they think im gay. But truth is im not. Ive been having this problem since i was a child. please help me out. I need your opinions. Even if i dont have a girlfriend now what if i grow older and still the same thought comes into their mind when i court her.. i would appreciate much good answer. =)

2007-10-09 01:29:33 · 1 answers · asked by Bryz 1

2007-10-09 01:10:48 · 1 answers · asked by cenkgurler67 1

She live Singapore(my cousin) and she have a boyfriend at Canada, they communicate by net and phone calls, cause of the time different of 12 hrs she always wait for him.

Today is no difference, she give up waiting after 8 hrs, then she came back to the net(late by half hour), her boyfriend leave her a message "Love sorry i am late, i am half drunk" he give 2 sec to pick up the call.
She cried cause she miss and now he is sleeping and post on the screen "l love only you, I love u"

Must she wait for him that long and miss him when he is back?

2007-10-09 00:52:14 · 3 answers · asked by mystic m 3