Big problem here?

Question

I want to have a girlfriend at this age of 13 and i know that im just being ignorant so i want to try it but take it seriously. The problem is people try to ruin my sex because i have a different voice,i play volleyball and not prefer basketball but i also liked basketball its just that its more easy to play volleyball than basketball. People judge and discriminate my sex which affects what the girls think what i am which also leads to a very big problem which they reject me because they think im gay. But truth is im not. Ive been having this problem since i was a child. please help me out. I need your opinions. Even if i dont have a girlfriend now what if i grow older and still the same thought comes into their mind when i court her.. i would appreciate much good answer. =)

Answer 1

Doesn't matter, don't compare the actions of others, to the actions of EVERYONE ELSE!!! So it really doesn't matter what your junior high thinks about you, be patient. The fact is you said it, you "want" a girlfriend so you don't "need" them to survive, which for your age group ISN'T realistic, so just let go of that. Instead concentrate on making you a better person, by understanding this world, yourself, and your fellow man. Realize what your up against, make yourself stronger, and you'll find her in due time, the worst thing you can do is rush it by changing your personal progression towards self-discovery. Don't let the sheep blind you just because their doing it, instead concentrate on becoming a shepard and you'll find yours..... the voice thing, man your 13, be patient.....