I have some signs I felt like my mate is cheating. Ok she works for at Arrons Rentals from 9am-9pm nightly Mon-Sat. Yeah long hours. She sometimes call me on her lunch break. But latley she has not. i have noticed that she is starting to waer perfume now and she is always taking a shower before she go to work every morning. Now this is something new!!! Whenever I try to have sex with her latley it would be an excude that she has a yeast infection and that she is using something to cure it right now and somenights she be tired. This went on for about the last three nights. Ohh yeah we do stay together. She always gets upset when I confront her about her. one more thing is that she is the only female in the store of about 6 guys!! Is she cheating???
2007-10-09 03:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by MMM Ice Cream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt that she is cheating. The fact that she has a yeast infection would make her not want to have sex AND feel she needed to shower every day. It`s only been 3 days. A yeast infection can last up to 7 days depending on how it`s treated. Stop worrying! She probably is tired after a 12 hr. shift. Give her a break!
2007-10-09 03:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, showering before work is a healthy habit, so that's not unusual, but wearing perfume all of a sudden seems strange. But still, if she is coming home to you on a timely manner and is not disappearing for long periods of time, then she probably is not cheating. Most people do not have the opportunity to cheat while at work. What would they do... slip off into a broom closet? As for the sex, I'd be tired too after working those long hours. But what about Sundays?
2007-10-09 10:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she works such rediculous hours she would most likely have to be cheating with someone she works with. Is she coming home late from work at all? If she continues to make excuses to not have sex after a week or two, something is definitely amiss. That should be long enough to clean up a yeast infection. Keep your eyes open.
2007-10-09 10:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's really no telling. My advice is play the somewhat nieve card, don't confront her as that will push her further away. Act as if you don't have a clue as to whats going on. If you do that she's more willing to be open about things until she soon slips up and you catch her saying something.
2007-10-09 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by miguel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility, but then again maybe she is having female issues down there. Be patient and keep your eyes open to signs. If it keeps up I would say yes to her cheating. If she is the only women working there ya know there is flirting going on.
2007-10-09 10:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by soccer_mom_cmb_101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suprise her with lunch one day while she's at work and just ask her what's going on with your relationship. I'm sure if nothing is going on she'll open up to you and say, "Yeah, we are having some problems." But if she's real close hearted then mabey there is something going on.
2007-10-12 16:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Swigaroo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be the guys from the store that she is cheating with, if she is cheating. You need to make sure that you did not do something to her because a women with lock up on you for something that she thinks you might have done.
2007-10-09 10:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by NUrDreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does and it doesn't.....why don't you go to her work and suprise her...or better have a couple of friends just "stop by"
Also you can hire a private detective to see what she is up to
2007-10-09 10:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by hi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect she is cheating, she most likely is. The heart never lies.
2007-10-09 10:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by miss w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup i think she prob is you have 2 sit down and talk 2 her
2007-10-09 10:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by MizKrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋