my g/f told me that i'm too much a nice guy, and she was alil tired of me and bored and im too shy. She told me i could make her happier by being more outgoing but way too shy to be. we have been dating for about 2 months but we have known each other for close to 2 years now. the nice guy thing has haunted with every girl i've ever dated. I just dont know what to do and i need some major help. she told me she isnt going to break up with me real soon but if things keep she probably will in 2-3 months.
2007-10-09 03:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by adcock87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about how nice you are its about that your boring. you can still be yourself, but you need to be a liilte less predictable
2007-10-09 03:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jon G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its already over !! She is looking out now. That was just a preview to prepare you for the dump. Dont call her and dont be in when she calls.... Get out and enjoy. I was you 25 years ago. Nice guys come last...is a fact. Use the net ..pick up girls ,as many as you can...it is a big learning curve. I have lived with 4 models now and am engaged to a model 15 years younger than me.. I am fat going bald and look like a dump truck..I must be doing something right.
2007-10-09 03:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I got a solution for you.
First of all dump her, this should shed the Mr nice guy thing you got going. Then tell her that you don't wait for someone to dump you and that you are worth way more then she obiously thinks. Just look how many girls post on this forum complaning that guys are jerks, lol many girls would love a nice guy.
2007-10-09 03:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her that this is who you are and if she doesn't like it, HIT THE ROAD TOOTZ! NEVER change yourself for anyone!
2007-10-09 03:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by marigoldkelly95 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please please check out sosuave.com !
2007-10-09 03:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by crasher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋